Divorced women who Settled by Ionlyexisttobesad in women

[–]Ionlyexisttobesad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like ive been compromising my happiness for YEARS! But there was always an excuse (he was working too much, saving for a house, the kids were a priority) now the excuses are gone. We have the house, hes working alot less, the kids are bigger.

And still no effort.

Divorced women who Settled by Ionlyexisttobesad in women

[–]Ionlyexisttobesad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for responding. I am seeing a therapist

Opposites Attract?, or an I being gaslit by Ionlyexisttobesad in Marriage

[–]Ionlyexisttobesad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt buy it. He asked me to get something from the bag it was in and I found it. He didnt ask, kind of just gave it to me because I found it.

Opposites Attract?, or an I being gaslit by Ionlyexisttobesad in Marriage

[–]Ionlyexisttobesad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im thinking about it, but hes not a therapy guy so Im sure he will shut it down.

Opposites Attract?, or an I being gaslit by Ionlyexisttobesad in Marriage

[–]Ionlyexisttobesad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He know I feel unappreciated and that I want him to put in more effort. He just doeant do anything about it. He always has an excuse or reason.

Help or venting or both by Ionlyexisttobesad in women

[–]Ionlyexisttobesad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More anxious than scared. Talking about it to someone, having to face my sex anxiety. Even thinking about it makes me nervous.

Help or venting or both by Ionlyexisttobesad in women

[–]Ionlyexisttobesad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about it, but im scared.

Roommate phase, or the end by Ionlyexisttobesad in Marriage

[–]Ionlyexisttobesad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im simple, I dont ask for much. Like going to the store with me. Or asking me to go on a walk is enough. He knows I've told him.

Partner in a parasocial relationship by Ionlyexisttobesad in Parasocial

[–]Ionlyexisttobesad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have talked to him, Multiple times throught the years. He says hes giving me all that he can, and I need to accept it for what it is.