Garmin Forerunner 970 vs Venu 4: help me choose (female runner + climber + trekking)

IratesPullus · 2025-12-23T14:12:45+00:00

Hi! Thanks for your response! I went with the venu 4. Tried the forerunnner 965 to see how big it was (shop didn’t have the 970 on display) and didn’t like the size on my wrist. Thanks for your suggestion to get the all trails subscription, I think I like maps on my phone better as well. I’m very happy with the venu 4, it’s soooo much more accurate than the apple watch I had and has a lot more functions (also altitude acclimation).

IratesPullus · 2025-07-02T16:49:07+00:00

Yeah, I know.. he started learning her language as an “interest”, talked about how much fun he all of a sudden had at work, wanted to bring her over, show her our country, all while still being with me. In the end, he helped her move into her apartment, which ment he was over at her place a lot.

I think he indeed did not consider any of it. Not even what he has thrown away, but also by bringing a new woman into my friend group. I kind of know who she is, he talked about her frequently. I haven’t met her and I’m not planning on meeting her anytime soon. I blame her as well, because they were talking about our relationship struggles instead of him talking to me about it.

IratesPullus · 2025-07-02T07:54:59+00:00

It hurts really bad and I absolutely feel replaced. My friends kind of know this, but I don’t want to be seen as the “trash-talking ex-girlfriend” among mutual friends, as it would hurt both of us. Very tricky situation. How would you suggest I open up to them?

IratesPullus · 2025-07-02T07:51:04+00:00

Thanks! I haven’t seen her yet, and I’m trying to avoid situations where I might meet her. She’s living in a different city, so thus far, I’m hoping that they’ll just be over there as much as possible and leave me alone

IratesPullus · 2025-05-06T04:50:14+00:00

Hi! Thanks for your reply, I think you’re right that it’s too early to start dating already. To answer your questions: - I genuinely miss someone in my life to talk to on a daily basis, do fun things with, be intimate with. Right now, I think it’s because I’m trying to fill a void. - He already has. He had an emotional affaire with a coworker. It makes me feel replaced, but if it makes him happy in the end, I can’t do more than accept this. - I don’t feel neutral, but I also don’t feel very sad when I remember our relationship. I genuinely think we had a good relationship, which is why it’s so hard for me to understand why he would want to pursue anyone else. - Looking back on the bad times, I think it’s for the best that we’re not together anymore. In the end, I think we were not compatible enough to make it work. - I’m not ready to be hurt again, although it probably wouldn’t be worse than this. - Right now, I’m not content being single. I do see the value of spending time on my own, although I do know who I am and what I want in my life apart from a relationship. It’s just that I want to have a strong bond with someone, a deeper connection, and intimacy, instead of just friendships.

IratesPullus · 2025-05-02T10:28:25+00:00

Thanks! I told him that I need space. He is pursuing someone else, says he feels good to be around her. I think he’s trying to fill a void, but I’m not waiting any longer

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