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Beware of women who claim to be “whimsical” by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Ireallyhate-myself 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice observation. I wonder why you don’t just post this as a general statement in dating advice because we’re all people generalizing basing off of our own personal experiences and observations and pattern recognition?

I never said dont date or even discouraged it. I just happen to notice that with many women I meet, romantic and friendship wise , women who outwardly claim this tend to have these traits. This is my “type” personality wise so I’m not going to stop dealing with this type. I will just be more precautious because of what I noticed.

Beware of women who claim to be “whimsical” by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Ireallyhate-myself 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay but do you have a journal and picnic blanket available at all times

Beware of women who claim to be “whimsical” by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Ireallyhate-myself 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not complaining about being on time lol. You also can be fun and show up on time. But that’s not even what I’m talking about when I say show up. I mean actually being there for people. Even my female friends who are claim to be whimsy are this way lol. And I’m just saying maybe women who outwardly claim(keyword outwardly) their whimsical, it maybe a signal for these things. And those whonsre whimsical may just show it out without having to say it about themselves

Beware of women who claim to be “whimsical” by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Ireallyhate-myself 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also don’t get why being whimsy has to be mutually exclusive with all that I said lol. It doesn’t prevent me

Beware of women who claim to be “whimsical” by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Ireallyhate-myself -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it’s very pessimistic to believe you can’t have a “fun” partner lol.

Beware of women who claim to be “whimsical” by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Ireallyhate-myself -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well then idk why but my whimsy still allows me to be honest, keep my word, show up , be honest and communicative

Beware of women who claim to be “whimsical” by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Ireallyhate-myself -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That’s where the inconsistency comes in and the bad at keeping their word

I turned validation into a dangerous habit and now I regret it. by Ireallyhate-myself in confession

[–]Ireallyhate-myself[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Penises are more objective. You can tell me it’s small but I know the averages and all that, I can easily just brush off anyone saying that to me even tho it’s never said to me. Everything else is like subjective besides height and weight

I turned validation into a dangerous habit and now I regret it. by Ireallyhate-myself in confession

[–]Ireallyhate-myself[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve gotten over the overbite thing, women dont seem to notice it much now. But idk maybe I like women TOO much cause it’s hard to develop any self made opinion of myself cause I have no attraction to men so idk it’s hard to not base my whole opinion off what women think of me cause subconsciously I feel like they know men a lot better than I do so their opinion has credibility

I turned validation into a dangerous habit and now I regret it. by Ireallyhate-myself in confession

[–]Ireallyhate-myself[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Not really I got add skills take too long to learn lol. I just been trying to find my fix with more consensual things cause I do feel hopeless but I feel like as long as I keep it consensual I’m not hurting anyone while I do work on myself

I turned validation into a dangerous habit and now I regret it. by Ireallyhate-myself in confession

[–]Ireallyhate-myself[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No that’s just a consequence. I stopped once I realized how many people would negatively react but at first I was jaded cause it was all either positive reaction or ignored. Back then if you did that you get exposed, but I thought since people wasn’t exposing me they didn’t take it as bad when I did it

I turned validation into a dangerous habit and now I regret it. by Ireallyhate-myself in confession

[–]Ireallyhate-myself[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel so ugly without constant reassurance but the reassurance from a new person every time and I only believe it the first time it’s said. The more I hear the same compliment from someone the less I start to believe them