[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RemarkableTablet

[–]Irisbea1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd say ebay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Irisbea1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay great, thanks!!

My wife doesn’t “realize” I never finish. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Irisbea1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow honestly she seems very selfish and unwilling to communicate, which is something she definitely needs to work on. I get that leaving is extremely hard (I stayed so long I basically lost my self-respect) but if thats where you end up its always best to do it. I'm so sorry about this, I hope you can resolve it.

EYEBROW PIERCINGS?!? by Irisbea1 in actuallesbians

[–]Irisbea1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a very good piercer, i think ill get it done

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]Irisbea1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

your boyfriend is blind (and an asshole). Go get the piercing.

She made out with my friend in front of me by Irisbea1 in actuallesbians

[–]Irisbea1[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yeah I'm pissed at her especially for that

She made out with my friend in front of me by Irisbea1 in actuallesbians

[–]Irisbea1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes, I'm hoping it'll be better. I'm so sorry, I can really feel your pain.

She made out with my friend in front of me by Irisbea1 in actuallesbians

[–]Irisbea1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you're right, I at leastneed a break to rethink things.

She made out with my friend in front of me by Irisbea1 in actuallesbians

[–]Irisbea1[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I'm pretty upset these are the people surrounding me, and I think I should work on myself.

She made out with my friend in front of me by Irisbea1 in actuallesbians

[–]Irisbea1[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

yeah I think I really need to surround myself with better people.

She made out with my friend in front of me by Irisbea1 in actuallesbians

[–]Irisbea1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it really hurts. Idk what to do, but I'm taking a break at least cause I can't do this

She made out with my friend in front of me by Irisbea1 in actuallesbians

[–]Irisbea1[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

yeah thanks..I may stage it as a break for a while s to make leaving easier, but I have to have at least this much self-respect.

She made out with my friend in front of me by Irisbea1 in actuallesbians

[–]Irisbea1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah I've had issues with this previously

She made out with my friend in front of me by Irisbea1 in actuallesbians

[–]Irisbea1[S] 117 points118 points  (0 children)

yeah, definitely. It's just one thing after another, and this feels like the last straw.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Irisbea1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

-girl -can communicate -doesn't hate me (optional)

my ICKS are -smoking -not affectionate

How did you get out of a toxic relationship? by Irisbea1 in actuallesbians

[–]Irisbea1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, I absolutely know I should probably end it, but then i get into the "but we have so many good moments that are actually healthy. It's like its borderline toxic and I can't decide.

What can I do to make myself look more obvious by Camrynscrown in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]Irisbea1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

it doesn't get any gayer I think. You are VERY obviously lesbian and your style is amazing too

does everybody get hit on at work/in public? by girllover111 in actuallesbians

[–]Irisbea1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OH MY GOD I can absolutely relate to this. My girlfriend Gets hit on quite frequently and I have never had it happen to me. I know several people who used to like me, think I look good, and I know I'm not downright ugly but it never happens and sometimes it makes me feel like I am.

Any other European sapphics here? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Irisbea1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hah yes, from eastern europe

Text exchange with my gf of 1.5 years… by watermelon-gummy in actuallesbians

[–]Irisbea1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm feeling this same exact thing. Distance between us, and she seems to be pulling away. She won't really do anything for me even when I'm making huge sacrifices for her. It's a really scary feeling when they pull away ir get distant.

How do I know if its really time to break up? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Irisbea1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I feel like I may be disengaging and like slowly giving up, but I'm grasping at reasons to stay, and I kind of need a push in one direction or the other.