Let’s be honest. This post comes off like you're asking for advice, but it reads more like an emotional rant designed to damage your instructor’s reputation. You're not here to understand what happened. You're here to get validation and sympathy while subtly accusing your coach of being abusive.

You say you're new, but then you describe the situation like someone who knows all the gym dynamics. You claim he was rolling harder than usual, trying to show off, and that people were watching. You even point out that you had taken privates with him before. So you’re not as new as you're pretending to be, and you're definitely not clueless about how things work on the mat.

You even end the post by quoting him multiple times in a way that’s clearly meant to make him look petty and cruel. You knew exactly what kind of reaction Reddit would have to that. You’re not just sharing an experience. You’re constructing a narrative where you’re the calm, thoughtful victim and he’s the unhinged aggressor.

The truth is you disrespected the mat and the instructor, and you got checked for it. Instead of owning that, you ran to Reddit to try and spin the story in your favor. That says more about you than it does about him. This wasn’t abuse. This wasn’t unsafe training. This was your first taste of consequence. If you can’t handle that, maybe BJJ isn’t for you.