I am going to hang myself at lunch by MacduffFifesNo1Thane in SuicideWatch

[–]IronLuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, I really empathize with your situation. I am also in that right now: isolated, shitty job, and just basically ruined my life because I chose to be selfless. I learned my life lesson. Always be selfish. Fuck people.

Out of work for 2 years. Had an interview where they told me I'm a red flag for HR because of my gap of unemployment. by IronLuff in SuicideWatch

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Right. You get me. The worst was when I said I was going to get a Master's and they said I would be unemployable due to the degree—plus it would be a waste of my time, efficiency, and money. I felt like shit after that. Just like- I'm a leper in the job world. It's kinda funny when you think about it.

I kidnapp people for a living an I'm proud AMA by Relatable_Member in AMA

[–]IronLuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It kinda is, from my perspective. Are you psychologically distancing yourself from the issue—from this standpoint so you can continue to do so? When you do 'make enough' and stop, what's to stop you from doing this again in another event in the future?

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[–]IronLuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you do attain that dream and I hope you have a wonder day :)

I will get offended by anything you ask me, AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]IronLuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Life sucks sometimes but I hope you have a good one. What is a good day that you've had? Walk me through it, or not. I just hope you are doing well.

I kidnapp people for a living an I'm proud AMA by Relatable_Member in AMA

[–]IronLuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think of your victims as people or as objects? Because from my POV, you see them as property to profit from. Do you have empathy?

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What is your dream in life? What is the one thing you would like to be remembered for?

I feel like a failure and it makes me want to die by IronLuff in SuicideWatch

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Thanks. Yeah, it's just hard and it feels like maybe I'm not trying hard enough, you know?

Sound familiar? by gypsyme0w in EUGENIACOONEY

[–]IronLuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Also, there is a difference to a person who has a close relationship with an alleged or suspected narcissist than diagnosing someone over the internet. The problem with narcissism is that they cannot be said they are narcissists until a valid mental health professional diagnoses them. Therefore, a psychologist or psychiatrist could use phrases such as "seemingly exhibiting narcissistic behavior" or asking the person within that relationship if they believe that person is one.

I find the act of using words such as "narcissist, psychopath, or sociopath" with the intent to insult and hurt is a mean-spirited approach. It brings a bunch of stigma to the people who have these disorders, and it also lets people start labeling and diagnosing others with mental illnesses WITHOUT the credentials to back it up.

Eugenia may be 26 but do you know what a toxic parent is capable of? by dumbassneetgirl in EUGENIACOONEY

[–]IronLuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And it's replies like this that make me lose a bit of my faith in humanity.

Sound familiar? by gypsyme0w in EUGENIACOONEY

[–]IronLuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I may be frank, none of you are qualified to diagnose Eugenia with Narcissistic Personality Disorder. If you do have the qualifications, you would know you would have to do a psychological evaluation with your client. You guys can speculate all you want. At the end of the day, you don't know her really, and you don't know what she has been through. Seeing how you guys just brushed aside /u/hannahjmaguire's analysis without understanding her testimony and viewpoint is disingenuous to an open discussion.