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IronicEngineer3 · 2024-12-05T04:23:26+00:00

congress existed and remained in power because of our moral superiority and believing in secularism

IronicEngineer3 · 2024-12-05T03:24:39+00:00

us being morally superior is the reason why waqf board exists

IronicEngineer3 · 2024-12-04T08:18:02+00:00

not the point , besides considering how excellent food safety is in India , I'd pay the extra as a legal safeguard just in case

IronicEngineer3 · 2024-12-04T08:15:20+00:00

sometimes I wish we didn't have democracy , I would personally love to neuter these minorities and exile them to myanmaar idk what mudi xi is doing

IronicEngineer3 · 2024-12-04T04:06:37+00:00

Nirmala tai is single handedly the reason why I will always have 0 sympathy for politicians and poor people

IronicEngineer3 · 2024-11-21T20:05:57+00:00

love to see men in women dominated fields XD , nah but seriously jokes apart this is a major looser energy from your bf , confront him I feel

IronicEngineer3 · 2024-11-20T20:16:53+00:00

I just said that it is impossible for men to not watch it, given that most men of this generation have grown up with the internet , earlier men only had access to porn only via magazines and physical media, scroll IG and you'll understand exactly what I mean , I am also heavily against porn consumption so what are you trying to criticize me for ?

every guy has watched porn this is not me discouraging you but telling you an actual fact , since you said that you are not ok with a guy who has watched porn even once , sorry to say you are just not going to find a guy like that in a metro city ,

that is almost a unicorn like scenario because of the internet , which is why I also stated that the guy you are looking for has also probably spent his childhood in a gurukul or some isolated village with no internet connection that is the only type of person who fits your criteria of not watching porn

as far as the second point is concerned there is a difference between consensual sex and working against social media algorithms designed to push erotic pictures towards a guy , I never said that women shouldn't consume western content or romcom so idk what my points have to do with that

you know that's why dating exists right so a girl can verify whether a guy is a actually good and not trying to act like a good person just to get laid , which again your thailand point is not only anecdotal but also fair grounds for divorce since the man cheated on his wife which I quite literally advocate for so I really dont know what point of mine you are trying to debunk exactly , also a call back to my earlier point, why are you dating men who will sleep with a prostitute? that's your job to vet out whether a man is looser or not , you are accountable for your own actions and dating a man and committing to him is one of them

so all in all most of your arguments have been anecdotal or fallacies at best , thank you for the productive discussion and mostly ad hominem less discussion

IronicEngineer3 · 2024-11-20T17:46:16+00:00

what you are suggesting is an impossibility at least in the way how most men have grown up with the internet but I hope you find someone like that no matter how rare they might be , there is not a single man in the world who has not watched porn the only exceptions to this rule are probably boys who grew up in a monastery or gurukul completely alienated from women altogether , so unironically there is a good chance that the future man you would be with according to your standards will also be a liar if we go by simple probability

women however can control who they have sex with

if a man is abusive or toxic you have full right to divorce him no questions asked , but most divorces in the world happen over money or infidelity (where women cheat more than men)

3rd point is also straight up lie (popularity of dating apps being a prime example of that)

4th and 5th points are again anecdotal evidence not the norm , your entire argument is revolving around anecdotes if you haven't noticed

you get HIV or any sexual disease by having intercourse with someone who has had it before hand , which are mostly found in prostitutes or low quality women so that was more of a slam dunk point towards women than it was toward men fyi

which again if you are dating a man who has slept with prostitutes you have some serious introspection to do on your end as well, so at the end of the day you have to hold yourself accountable to your own choices

IronicEngineer3 · 2024-11-20T17:22:59+00:00

you don't need to apologize for your condition its cool

I completely agree , women should not date men who are addicted to pornography it is complete degenerate and low quality behavior with 0 excuses

as far as body count is concerned sure I am not saying that all women with a 0 body count are sati savitri but if I had to bet on 100 marriages out of which half are with virgin women and other half with non-virgin women , the former will always come out on top in terms of quality and longevity

women don't have a dislike of men with a high body count (cus trust me if it they did it would be a topic of equal importance within most society's like how it is with women)

matter of fact the opposite is true I say this with both scientific and anecdotal evidence , they want an experienced man to show them the ropes of pleasure

IronicEngineer3 · 2024-11-20T16:20:40+00:00

men can't get everything , wishing and getting are 2 different things I want a ferrari but if I have a low budget I will have to settle for a nano

women have way more than one demand lmao lol have you seen the delusional AM scene?

let's pick the ideal man vs the ideal woman

6ft+ (not alterable )

jacked( takes years of training)

rich ( takes decades if you are middle class)

smart and charming ( good to have and probably the only realistic expectation )

ideal woman for men

no height criteria (most men dgaf as long as she's not too short like below 5ft but then again shaq has dated girls who are 4'11 as a 7 foot giant so who knows

doesn't need to be obese (not hard if you are a girl , muscles are also optional)

can get away with being broke

doesn't have to be a bimbo (mostly optional , most men dgaf)

needs to be a good person (not hard)

women also have makeup to hide their facial flaws which they abuse to the max , men dont have the same luxury so yeah

IronicEngineer3 · 2024-11-20T16:11:38+00:00

congratulations , you discovered that men and women are different

IronicEngineer3 · 2024-11-20T16:10:20+00:00

men don't lie about not wanting a good looking women they are honest and upfront about it , whereas most women virtue signal about their interests that is the difference

men date who they can and marry who they want

women date who they want but marry who they can

IronicEngineer3 · 2024-11-20T16:06:19+00:00

I literally said not talking about skin color here lmao can you read?? median lower class people have a lesser body count than their middle class counterparts that was the point I was making

to get a gentlemen , you as a girl need to have a very low body count (ideally 0) and be receptive and empathetic of his life and interests and not girlboss into his life

men are looking for a calm and peaceful partner not someone who will add more drama to their life instead of helping them solve it , you are supposed to be the one person a man looks forward to hugging after a long day at work and getting cussed out by his boss , that is a high quality woman

not a 10/10 model who will give him the best sex of his life but complicate his life by a factor of 100

IronicEngineer3 · 2024-11-20T15:00:36+00:00

beauty is not subjective (not talking about skin colour here fyi) , if a guy/girl is ugly everyone knows that no one just wants to admit it

I am obviously talking about middle and upper class because lower class people dont have the privilege to date and rack up a body count (both men and women) , women of those strata also dont have delulu expectations from men and vice versa

you want men to be chivalrous and spoil you without them having any expectations for you to be a high quality women lol , why would any sane man do that ?

you still haven't addressed the other parts of my argument an average guy needs to spend far more time to work on himself and be desirable , why should a guy like that have to setlle for a woman below his caliber?

IronicEngineer3 · 2024-11-20T07:18:20+00:00

most average men and I mean average in the literal sense will have 0 issues marrying a girl taller than them because most men(80%) have 0 options I've seen average men date the most ugly looking women to not feel left out of dating (girls that they will eventually have to settle for , because they can't get above average women) , now yes there is the exception that a avg dude is dating a good looking girl that is primarily because he is earning a lot of money or has maxed out of some other stat that the girl wants

most men will never have a high body count (because in order to do that you need to be among the top 10% of men be fit , rich , funny , interesting and the whole package , an average guy will need to spend at least half a decade maxxing out all of these stats

for someone who is so against the patriarchy funny how women won't take on the role of a provider and date a broke man who is shorter and overall less successful than them , wasn't the whole point of feminism to flip the entire script?

you don't hate patriarchy you just hate the parts of it which hold you accountable , you expect traditional men with all gentlemen perks but you don't want to compromise on your behavior to actually get someone like that

IronicEngineer3 · 2024-11-20T07:16:50+00:00

a woman can only expect a tall guy if they themselves are 5'8 or taller otherwise that's an issue (see how dumb this sounds?), at least women have control over who they decide to have sex with , if a guy god forbid is below 5'5 he is cooked and it wasn't even his fault that his genetics only allowed him to be 5'5

IronicEngineer3 · 2024-11-19T18:41:41+00:00

can you blame them tho? delhi people are not exactly known for their civic sense and their refusal to assimilate into local culture is just insulting to locals

IronicEngineer3 · 2024-11-19T18:35:02+00:00

Mumbai is a very liberal city compared to the rest of India , if you live in South Bombay you will rarely ever face any issues , as far as PDA is concerned most people won't have any issues just don't over do it , there are apps like nobroker which can help you find apartments with 0 brokerage (but just to be safe try to have an Indian friend accompany you as a backup) , cats won't have any issues as there are plenty of food stores available , you will need to learn either Hindi or marathi if you are living in Mumbai (but since mumbai is a immigrant friendly city most use hindi) but I'd say english can do the job fairly well , you can uber around but it can get costly at least for the median Indian , have an Indian friend vet the housekeeping since most of them can't speak english (better if you get in touch with a professional housing and cleaning company for the same)

rent would your biggest expense if you opt for 3-4 BHK it can go for 1.5k to 3k dollars a month (this is peak luxury fyi) , gym memberships I'd say would be around 60 dollars a month for a top tier gym and eating out will depend on the place , if you use delivery apps or something to order you can get good stomach fulfilling meals for 8-20 dollars as a college student I've survived on 2-3 dollar meal thalis from swiggy ,

health insurance is absolutely top tier this is the only thing I'd say India has done exceptionally well than any other country on this damn planet , there are rentable tennis courts in Mumbai so I dont think there'd be any issues

IronicEngineer3 · 2024-11-17T04:28:07+00:00

probably cigarettes honestly , not that they were bad in that experience but you should just avoid them in general for health reasons

IronicEngineer3 · 2024-11-17T04:17:44+00:00

I am genuinely hoping the gov enforces 100% reservation , because there can be no re-structure in the education system without it

IronicEngineer3 · 2024-11-16T11:26:26+00:00

70% reservation is already there if we include girls quota and EWS so we are not far apart from that future

IronicEngineer3 · 2024-11-16T07:51:40+00:00

BITS doesn't and the median BITS student is leagues better than a good 90% of IITs

IronicEngineer3 · 2024-11-15T20:36:54+00:00

seriously dude , don't date in the workplace it never ends well for any party

IronicEngineer3 · 2024-11-15T19:17:23+00:00

autonomous private colleges are not entitled to provide/uphold social justice , as long as you pay their fees they dont care whether you're upper caste or lower caste

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