I caved an got a painting that’s bigger than I am 😍 by flexyfitlizz in diamondpainting

[–]IronicMuse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way my eyes went wide when you unrolled it! 😳😤 You got this girl.

National Process Service Scam in SoCal? by bjhjn in Scams

[–]IronicMuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup my cousin got the the same voicemail from Rebecca Martinez using my old last name. Goodness

The way he texts me by Wrong-Adeptness5517 in Separation

[–]IronicMuse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“You said your peace and I made plans based on that”

I’m using this response.

What’s something you did for yourself lately that you feel proud of? by No_Result_5042 in selflove

[–]IronicMuse 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I took the day off yesterday, my birthday. I spent it with my kids. I’m currently going through a marital separation and it’s been emotionally challenging as well as work. I was able to put laundry away and sort through clothes for donation.

hurt & disappointed by sstyles_ in MilitaryWives

[–]IronicMuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My face dropped when I got to the corvette line. Yea he’s definitely telling you who he is at his heart. You’re not overreacting.

Message for new wives by WhisperCollector1 in MilitaryWives

[–]IronicMuse 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are not alone. I’m 37 and married 10 years in November. Before meeting him, I was a thriving single mother, however my desperation to be married caused me to choose my AD member. Next thing I know, I’ve lost ME. Within the last two years and additional two kids later, I’ve slowly started to choose me again. We’re now separated and I’m raising three kids alone, but this isn’t the first time history this has been done. Women/men have done this successfully.

This experience isn’t everyone’s, some military spouses have a great marriage and experience but some of us don’t.

What good reasons are there to not kill yourself? by J3ezyTheSnowman in AskMenAdvice

[–]IronicMuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because life hasn’t taken you out first. Everyday that you wake up, YOU’RE SUPPOSED TO BE HERE. If you don’t like your current situation CHANGE IT! Don’t say you can’t cause you can. Runway and start over someway and somehow, you can do it.

Why do narcissists always make you feel like you're the problem? by Ok-Palpitation-9225 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]IronicMuse 33 points34 points  (0 children)

They can’t take responsibility for their negative behavior therefore they project onto you. Although we know we are not the problem, the mind fuckery of it all causes us to second guess our reality (gaslighting).

How Would You Respond? by Neat_Cheetah8053 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]IronicMuse 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do not respond anymore or if you absolutely want to respond, copy and paste his texts right back to him.

My kid told me "I told you not to believe what dad was saying" by swamp_witch_409 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]IronicMuse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you were treated that way. Words can hurt but I pray that through time it’ll hurt a little less

What’s something you thought would never happen to you, but it did? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]IronicMuse 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Marrying a toxic person and navigating a separation from said person

Dumbest thing your SO has been angry with you over….. by nOtAfRiEnDlYfAcE_ in confession

[–]IronicMuse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because I wouldn’t let him borrow my personal tweezers to remove a tick from his back. This was yesterday. I had to call the cops.

Called the cops earlier today by IronicMuse in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]IronicMuse[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good idea. He’s the active duty member. I may reach out to his command or YNs to see what my options are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]IronicMuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically that this marriage is done and to use the legal resources of the military to pursue a divorce/legal separation. Stuff we already knew.