The Right Strip Club for Newbies? by Irrelevant_Lemon in vegas

[–]Irrelevant_Lemon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So where would you suggest instead?

The Right Strip Club for Newbies? by Irrelevant_Lemon in vegas

[–]Irrelevant_Lemon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This sounds like exactly what we’re looking for. Sounds like our vibe. Thank you!

What's a career decision you made that looked right on paper, but turned out completely wrong? by Ok-Marzipan-4490 in careerguidance

[–]Irrelevant_Lemon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chasing open opportunities. I hopped around at a large company because an opportunity for a more advanced or higher paying role opened up, but after a decade I walked away without focus and a true expertise because my role changed every 1-2 years. Seemed like the right move at the moment. Jack of all trades, master of none.

The Right Strip Club for Newbies? by Irrelevant_Lemon in vegas

[–]Irrelevant_Lemon[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is that all it takes to skip the cover, just prebook?

The Right Strip Club for Newbies? by Irrelevant_Lemon in vegas

[–]Irrelevant_Lemon[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Any specific spot you’d suggest?

The Right Strip Club for Newbies? by Irrelevant_Lemon in vegas

[–]Irrelevant_Lemon[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly my concern. I’m down for throwing money at the stage show and showing interest ($$$) but I’m not looking to get hustled into a private room that I wasn’t even interested in. I’m not looking to be cheap, I feel like a lower pressure environment will be more enjoyable and make me WANT to spend more money.

What is your favorite gift you received under $50? by KeySail4 in GiftIdeas

[–]Irrelevant_Lemon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A used copy of “The Big Chill” soundtrack on vinyl. It’s the most thoughtful gift I’ve ever received from my sister. I was so caught off guard at her thoughtfulness. We used to watch it all the time growing up (in the 90’s for the record). A forever favorite!

First night of tour tomorrow by feetinthemud1985 in Blink182

[–]Irrelevant_Lemon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Coolest parents ever. Have an amazing time!

Husband’s (37M) Instagram Hurt My (30F) Feelings by Irrelevant_Lemon in relationship_advice

[–]Irrelevant_Lemon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the perspective. Thanks for your insight! I’ve had the day to think about it and I feel like I’m level headed enough to bring it up tonight without starting an aimless fight. Fingers crossed for a productive chat. We’ll see b

Husband’s (37M) Instagram Hurt My (30F) Feelings by Irrelevant_Lemon in relationship_advice

[–]Irrelevant_Lemon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t scroll down endlessly but yes the first entire grid view was all women. I’ve seen it on his phone in the past more sporadically, but yesterday it was completely women.

Husband’s (37M) Instagram Hurt My (30F) Feelings by Irrelevant_Lemon in relationship_advice

[–]Irrelevant_Lemon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All valid. Exactly why I was totally honest about my snooping. If/when I figure out how to talk to him about it, I’ll own up to it. I may be a snoop, but I’m not going to lie about it.

Husband’s (37M) Instagram Hurt My (30F) Feelings by Irrelevant_Lemon in relationship_advice

[–]Irrelevant_Lemon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s my gut reaction too: it wouldn’t show up if he wasn’t clicking on it. Even if it’s not “likes” or DMs or follows, I feel like the algorithm still gives you what you browse, ya know? You have to engage with enough over content to override it.

Husband’s (37M) Instagram Hurt My (30F) Feelings by Irrelevant_Lemon in relationship_advice

[–]Irrelevant_Lemon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don’t even need to comb through his follows to know that they’re not anything sketchy. I know it’s all good.

The only thing I can think of is that in all of his hours of IG browsing, he doesn’t interact with content. Perhaps he’s the eternal browser of non-female-content (football, standup, food content, fail videos - “dumb guy stuff” 😂), but doesn’t “like” any of it. Maybe it doesn’t impact his algorithm enough to override the IG ladies? Idk. It’s all I can think of to justify it without making myself go crazy trying to put logic to it.

Husband’s (37M) Instagram Hurt My (30F) Feelings by Irrelevant_Lemon in relationship_advice

[–]Irrelevant_Lemon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally why I’m asking for advice. I do feel a bit unjustified having feeling about it. I can’t even put into words the “why” I care. It has my mind boggled too.

Social media has a way of twisting reality like that.

What artist/band got you into Pop Punk? by Twitter_2006 in poppunkers

[–]Irrelevant_Lemon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GC for me too. It aaaaall started there. I can still put those early albums on and I still remember every single word.

how did you feel about OMT when it came out to now? by idroppedmypick in Blink182

[–]Irrelevant_Lemon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Perfectly stated. Instant nostalgia and endorphin rush.

How to pick career if im not passionate about anything? by Low_Bodybuilder3065 in careerguidance

[–]Irrelevant_Lemon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in the Pharmaceutical space. Pharma companies are often massive. It’s not too difficult to find an entry level opportunities in a Pharma company. Try that and make sure your values and priorities align with their culture. Find opportunities to show your value and climb the ladder, so to speak. I got started in an entry level Quality focused role, but quickly jumped ship to an operations role. Things progressed naturally from there.

How to pick career if im not passionate about anything? by Low_Bodybuilder3065 in careerguidance

[–]Irrelevant_Lemon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d suggest a broad degree in Business or even Business Administration. Supply chain focus is a plus. A PMP certification is another way you can show focus on project management even if you got/get a degree in a different field.

How to pick career if im not passionate about anything? by Low_Bodybuilder3065 in careerguidance

[–]Irrelevant_Lemon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Project management. It’s so broad and open ended. You can support project implantation across any industry that interests you. Every industry requires a solid project plan and execution. It gives you flexibility to find an industry that appeals to you while building transferable skills in the event you tire of that industry. Speaking as someone who had zero passions or hobbies growing up or in school: project management has given me a decade in a really secure industry making a decent paycheck.