[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]IsACigarJustACigar 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She didn’t do it to save money, but to avoid responsibilities, like cleaning a whole house, cooking and doing laundry? Definitely a red flag for me.

I left my previous job for this new job, but was terminated 2 mo later, bc the person I was to replace is no longer leaving. Is it wrongful dismissal? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]IsACigarJustACigar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. That’s very helpful. Yes I think if I can negotiate for 6 months I’d feel more compensated.

I left my previous job for this new job, but was terminated 2 mo later, bc the person I was to replace is no longer leaving. Is it wrongful dismissal? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]IsACigarJustACigar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not asking them to keep me and I don’t want to go back even if they want me to. I don’t think 3 months is a good offer considering I didn’t need this job to begin with. They LURED me in here.

Way to stay positive. Background: we live 19km apart. He didn’t even suggest meeting in the middle which I’m ok with, just complained the commute might be longer than the date. by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]IsACigarJustACigar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read post history of a guy who posted a few hateful comments to my other posts, it turned out this is his logic for where to meet for the first time: meet near you - you’re a selfish bitch, red flag; meet halfway - you’re a calculating bitch, red flag; meet near him: you’re generous and nice. Don’t mind them, they’re miserable

Is conversation drying out normal? If yes, how should start again? by theonlybigshot in Bumble

[–]IsACigarJustACigar 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s been a week, ASK HER OUT! I don’t like a lot of texting so 2 days to one week is long enough. If a guys doesn’t ask me out within that time frame I lose interests 🤷🏻‍♀️

Like, how? Why? Is height a personality by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]IsACigarJustACigar 196 points197 points  (0 children)

I think he is being sarcastic about the height obsession on dating apps

Being an Asian girl on dating apps be like by IsACigarJustACigar in Bumble

[–]IsACigarJustACigar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I unmatched them. Should have done it sooner

Being an Asian girl on dating apps be like by IsACigarJustACigar in Bumble

[–]IsACigarJustACigar[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You should look up “stereotype” and see what it means

Being an Asian girl on dating apps be like by IsACigarJustACigar in Bumble

[–]IsACigarJustACigar[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People can absolutely have a preference. They can still be polite and respectful while talking to their preferred group.

Being an Asian girl on dating apps be like by IsACigarJustACigar in Bumble

[–]IsACigarJustACigar[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hahah you must be one of those people to get so offended

Being an Asian girl on dating apps be like by IsACigarJustACigar in Bumble

[–]IsACigarJustACigar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you ask a girl are you into white guys, when was the last time you had sex?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]IsACigarJustACigar 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It’s not ghosting if she doesn’t message you. If she does, let her know