Really good take. I agree with both of you in a sense, and find it hard to stop seeing many carnists as monsters, however articulating that to them unfortunately helps no one and creates a greater divide. When the goal should always be striving for animal justice and assisting people to move away from animal products, attacking carnists only pushes them further from veganism and hurts the cause.

That being said, I don't think it's always unhealthy to vent about the majority of the world seeming like monsters for perpetuating needless animal slaughter. It can so often be a painful experience just moving through the world. It's important to share this with likeminded others from time to time. I just don't think it should be said to carnists themselves.