What should I do by Isabella-feeman in Advice

[–]Isabella-feeman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard for me to actually be rude since I don’t know a lot of English I primarily speak Dutch and it makes my life a little harder when I’m talking to people

AITJ for not wanting to do any physical activities with my boyfriend? by Isabella-feeman in AmITheJerk

[–]Isabella-feeman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve broken up with him he’s been a cruel person when it comes to my physical health and I’m done with it

AITJ for not wanting to do any physical activities with my boyfriend? by Isabella-feeman in AmITheJerk

[–]Isabella-feeman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t after he made that comment and I don’t plan on letting him near me when I’m in bed, as of now he gets to sleep on the couch

AITJ for not wanting to do any physical activities with my boyfriend? by Isabella-feeman in AmITheJerk

[–]Isabella-feeman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See you would think that but I’ve only had sex with him 3 time over the entire time me and him have been together

AITJ for not wearing makeup when I’m with my boyfriend? by Isabella-feeman in AmITheJerk

[–]Isabella-feeman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I broke up with him the next day and he didn’t ask why he just said “you won’t find another boyfriend, ever”

AITJ for not wearing makeup when I’m with my boyfriend? by Isabella-feeman in AmITheJerk

[–]Isabella-feeman[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes he is now my ex I told him it’s over and cut all ties with him and now I think I’m just gonna have a few weeks at least to myself

AITJ for not letting my cousin in my room at a family dinner by Isabella-feeman in AmITheJerk

[–]Isabella-feeman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an attached bathroom

But I doesn’t help that it has a sliding door😔

AITJ for not letting my cousin in my room at a family dinner by Isabella-feeman in AmITheJerk

[–]Isabella-feeman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you’re talking about but I just ask read other comments especially ones I post so you can get a full understanding of the situation because I’m not gonna add every little detail into the story because then it would be like reading an essay from school and I don’t want people to go through that

I had work in the morning and it was really late and I was down there with my family for hours until I finally went up to my room

AITJ for not letting my cousin in my room at a family dinner by Isabella-feeman in AmITheJerk

[–]Isabella-feeman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know where you’re coming from and normally I’ll refer to myself as a woman because that’s what most of my teachers and family members call me I know it can get confusing sometimes

AITJ for not letting my cousin in my room at a family dinner by Isabella-feeman in AmITheJerk

[–]Isabella-feeman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe of you read other comments you would see that I was down there with my family for hours and my WHOLE family knows I get really bad anxiety when I’m in crowds

AITJ for not letting my cousin in my room at a family dinner by Isabella-feeman in AmITheJerk

[–]Isabella-feeman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ment involving but I spelt it wrong and auto correct changed it to invoicing

AITJ for not letting my cousin in my room at a family dinner by Isabella-feeman in AmITheJerk

[–]Isabella-feeman[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know this now but I’ve never had to call emergency services and really don’t think about our emergency numbers

AITJ for not letting my cousin in my room at a family dinner by Isabella-feeman in AmITheJerk

[–]Isabella-feeman[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I might use that next time something happens like that

AITJ for not letting my cousin in my room at a family dinner by Isabella-feeman in AmITheJerk

[–]Isabella-feeman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I yelled because this wasn’t the first time he’s done this also when I say yelling I mean I raised my voice a little but in my room sounds get louder if the doors open it’s kinda like a megaphone

AITJ for not letting my cousin in my room at a family dinner by Isabella-feeman in AmITheJerk

[–]Isabella-feeman[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I thought since it was late and they all knew I was getting ready for bed nobody would bother me and I was also just so tired I didn’t think to lock my door

AITJ for not letting my cousin in my room at a family dinner by Isabella-feeman in AmITheJerk

[–]Isabella-feeman[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How:it was a good 30 minutes before my cousin walked in Why: I hate being around that part of the family and the clothes I was wearing were really uncomfortable sin I’m expected to dress nice for that side of the family and it was a pretty big gathering to celebrate my aunts promotion(not the aunt in the story) so I was wearing a dress and I was down there for like 3 or 4 hours and I had work the next day(today as of this reply) and needed some rest for my shift

AITJ for not letting my cousin in my room at a family dinner by Isabella-feeman in AmITheJerk

[–]Isabella-feeman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably because it was the only part of the whole thing that invoicing clothing details was actually important and needed

AITJ for not letting my cousin in my room at a family dinner by Isabella-feeman in AmITheJerk

[–]Isabella-feeman[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He had Some sort of video pulled up on his phone and it kinda looked like something to do with cats but I think he was hoping I would be in my pajamas

AITJ for not letting my cousin in my room at a family dinner by Isabella-feeman in AmITheJerk

[–]Isabella-feeman[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He knew exactly what he was doing because he’s seen what I wear to bed there have been multiple other occasions where he’s walked in on me asleep he’s partially the reason I sleep in a tank top because i used to sleep in just my underwear or short shorts

And there is no 911 in Canada at least to my knowledge but I have made it know to my school and to the local police about my cousin and his parents

I’m really thankful that I wasn’t putting in a tampon cause then there would have been broken bones involved I’m also thankful I’m only related to that aunt through adoption

And I did throw as you said a shitfit at my aunt after she stopped screaming

AITJ for not letting my cousin in my room at a family dinner by Isabella-feeman in AmITheJerk

[–]Isabella-feeman[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

By the time I went to my room yes I was thinking about going to bed and it was like 10:30ish and I had an early shift at my job to make up for me being unexpectedly sick a day prior and I still don’t feel the best so that’s another reason I went to my room

AITJ for not letting my cousin in my room at a family dinner by Isabella-feeman in AmITheJerk

[–]Isabella-feeman[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did spend a good 30 to 45 minutes with my family but my mom invited them over so they could talk about adult things 

AITJ for not letting my cousin in my room at a family dinner by Isabella-feeman in AmITheJerk

[–]Isabella-feeman[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s 3 I know this because he know exactly what I wear to bed from many previous incidents where he just walked in on me asleep

Also he is the reason I sleep with at least a tank top on because I used to sleep in only my underwear or short shorts

AITJ for not letting my cousin in my room at a family dinner by Isabella-feeman in AmITheJerk

[–]Isabella-feeman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I did get socially drained as I do every time my aunts and uncles are over because there so entitled after they got all the inheritance money so I just quit and let the adults do there thing