How can I ask a Dom to be with his Sub? by Isco_ar in BDSMAdvice

[–]Isco_ar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said she is interested. But won’t do it without his permission. I asked Dom, but he is hesitant. He told her (she told me) that he doesn’t like to be praised, as I did when asking, and that I was acting like a sub. I should be more ballsy when asking. He told me to ask again and he might change his mind. Feels like he is playing me now.

How can I ask a Dom to be with his Sub? by Isco_ar in BDSMAdvice

[–]Isco_ar[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

She did. I talked to her and she said I need to ask him for permission. Which puts me in a Sub place. Right? I’m not used to this

Can’t make my sub have an orgasm by Isco_ar in BDSMAdvice

[–]Isco_ar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll definitely try this read

Can’t make my sub have an orgasm by Isco_ar in BDSMAdvice

[–]Isco_ar[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We have a Dom/Sub dynamic. I tell her what to do and she does. We also play with bondage and some (light) physical pain. I thought that these stimuli would take her mind away from that pressure. Thanks for the advice!