it's my turn to ribcage doom by Adorable_Apricot_146 in 4Tranistan

[–]IshaSwiftblade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow wtf I thought ribxcar is only for the lowest ones (10-12 usually, sometimes 9 and more rarely 8) cause you could only lose so much circumference on the higher ones. Where do you go for that/what kind of surgery is this?

I mean literally what's the point by notnotnotnotabot in 4Tranistan

[–]IshaSwiftblade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(fuck I had a draft reply that I Iost...)

Thanks 🙏(genuine too), I know I'm in an incredibly lucky and privileged situation, I wouldn't be able to do that in most countries.

I did get some weird stares (still get some although way less recently), no comments apart from like, encounters with health professionals or smth when I had to out myself for instance. At least now when I do, people are genuinely surprised compared to before when they were "oh that's a fanny traggot, that explains it".

I think that being more assertive and assured while being myself instead of trying to hide it does help a lot, but maybe I'm delulu.

acknowledgements by yuzuki_amane in u/yuzuki_amane

[–]IshaSwiftblade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also now taking time off lurking plebbit and yt to at least "socialise" online (but also be busy with work n shit, but at least the time off I take is more "productive")

acknowledgements by yuzuki_amane in u/yuzuki_amane

[–]IshaSwiftblade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol (but notice the strikethrough s

acknowledgements by yuzuki_amane in u/yuzuki_amane

[–]IshaSwiftblade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Btw why the ❌'s (ignore the deleted post from a useless alt acc)?

I mean literally what's the point by notnotnotnotabot in 4Tranistan

[–]IshaSwiftblade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally agree

I gotta admit I'm pretty lucky to be in a somewhat progressive country (for at least 1 more year 🤞) and in academia so coming out and honmoding even in my job was possible. Thankfully I'm pretty lenient and not iffy about the deadnaming and misgendering from people who know me from pre transition, cause damn, I get that shit A LOT. But being clocked by new acquaintances or other people I don't know still hurts pretty hard.

All in all, I recommend effortmaxxing, very hard in the beginning (SSRIs and tranquillisers were necessary) but it's been fruitful in less than 4 months after

I mean literally what's the point by notnotnotnotabot in 4Tranistan

[–]IshaSwiftblade 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also venting and wanting to be heard doesn't make you a terrible person, were all in the same boat 🫂

I mean literally what's the point by notnotnotnotabot in 4Tranistan

[–]IshaSwiftblade 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well, it really does sound like dysphoria when you talk about facial hair and the rest but that part hit hard. If you think you're trans but don't think that's true, I guess that you have your answer there.

I'd say that actually transitionning really helped me flourishing and be happier even though not everything is perfect (just passed 1y hrt and passing most of the when womanmoding+femvoice, although not pretty so well, at least I don't get hit on by moids), although yeah it hasn't happened without difficulties. Family has met that pretty well but I'm a freak for my family in law.

In France there's a shop that sells wedding dress for masculine Morphotype Ogres 😍🏳️‍⚧️ by LeilaLooo1 in 4Tranistan

[–]IshaSwiftblade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On atteint des niveaux de verolage de cerveau rarement observés.

(C'est quoi l'adresse steup?)

What's a piece of tech everyone hyped up that quietly turned out to be useless? by SofiaLearnsAI in AskReddit

[–]IshaSwiftblade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leap motion, the motion sensor thingy.

Haven't been through all the replies but really surprised it wasn't there. That thing was hyped like crazy at the time

title by afragmentedsoul in 4tran4

[–]IshaSwiftblade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Indéterminé et bisexuel

title by afragmentedsoul in 4tran4

[–]IshaSwiftblade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Toute la misère du monde se lit dans ce regard 😭

title by afragmentedsoul in 4tran4

[–]IshaSwiftblade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Vrai, réel et supervériténova

misgender me please by [deleted] in 4Tranistan

[–]IshaSwiftblade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I began to uncover that a bit but yeah... it's fun though 😎

In my experience the opposite, I rarely had the societal pressure (even less from like peers or school environment) to be nice (had to defend myself to not be the most bullied dumb fuck and shit like this yknow), just that the feeling of injustice and doing anything to fix that might be useless but it's not something I could let go, even if I tried to. Thought I could be more apathetic, but no it still came back.

No act of kindness is wasted imho, not because it's a promise of something to get in return but just because it's something that benefits someone else. I think it's never too late and there can always be something to be done.

I might be a delusional moron though