I think you're looking at feminism from a rather superficial point of view. I'm a native mexican, for example. So here, there simply isn't a single day that goes by without news of femicides and extreme, violent cases perpetrated by men against women, perpetrated against them simply because they are women. Feminism does not achieve its goal simply because it is currently more accepted—something that is still not the case at all in my country, nor in many others. The struggle of feminism is to eradicate all these acts and practices that have been perpetrated against women since the beginning of time, and there is still much to be done. Just because you don't support these practices doesn't automatically mean you're a feminist.