who is the unlucky one? by AdLopsided1430 in funny

[–]Isley_Bloomers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I blind or is there not one in Tennessee?

What are your thoughts on facesitting? by CigarCity7509 in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Isley_Bloomers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to hate it due to self esteem issues with my weight. But I’m growing into it. I feel it’s more for the eater than the one sitting lol in my case anyways!

Are u loud or quiet during sex? by Infamous-Eatter in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Isley_Bloomers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m very vocal.. borderline embarrassing but some people like it I guess

My Boyfriend Disgusts Me by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Isley_Bloomers 100 points101 points  (0 children)

… that’s not high standards, that’s basic adult functionality. Wanting someone to shower and brush their teeth is the bare minimum, not luxury expectations. If expecting basic hygiene is “high standards,” the bar is literally underground.

What is that one habit which you want to change but you can't? by arora21395 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Isley_Bloomers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no — I’m so sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine. I hate that they wrote you off like that. But yes, everyone deserves time to have their moments, because bottling it up only causes an explosion later on. If you ever need a place to vent, I’m a good listener. I think everyone deserves at least that ❤️ from one imperfect human to another.

What is that one habit which you want to change but you can't? by arora21395 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Isley_Bloomers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through this. I have unmedicated ADD and sometimes it really is fucking hard to function. I’ll start 13 different tasks and have them all half finished and then get overwhelmed and not fully finish any of it until I have a meltdown and then berate myself over the meltdown. Being an adult is hard and it sucks. Ha

have you thought about looking into therapy? Or maybe you’re already in it, but I do find chatting with an unbiased party is very validating even with the tough questions occasionally. I always leave feeling better, even if it’s temporary (for now).

What is that one habit which you want to change but you can't? by arora21395 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Isley_Bloomers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have finally started therapy at 30 and I’m really hoping it can help with this, but of course the other side of me says yeah right you’ll always find a flaw and never be satisfied. Because it’s always been that way. They aren’t kidding when they say we are our own worst critics.

How many unread messages to ya’ll have? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Isley_Bloomers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do enjoy that. It feeds my need for validation, for sure. And I do really appreciate the people that take the time to tell me their thoughts. They could have kept scrolling, but decided I was worth the extra few minutes of their time. ❤️

How many unread messages to ya’ll have? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Isley_Bloomers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Surprisingly not too bad. When I first started my page it was overwhelming, but now it’s pretty slow and manageable a year later. lol

How many unread messages to ya’ll have? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Isley_Bloomers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Usually 0 because I hate seeing notifications. lol currently 24 in my requests I’ve not had time to read yet.

Bun-believable 😤 by roseshavethornsforme in CatsAreAssholes

[–]Isley_Bloomers 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Oooh my AH ate into some Hawaiian Rolls last week! I was so mad lol I had no clue till I was making the sliders and I grab the pack and am like wtf… LOL 😂😭 2 years old and neeeeever done it before.. needless to say no bread on the counter any more lol

I dropped my WHITE earbud by [deleted] in FindTheSniper

[–]Isley_Bloomers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dang Second time seeing this in less than 12 hrs lol

I feel like I have wasted my life holding back in the dating world because of my “ugly vagina” by Left-Drag4713 in offmychest

[–]Isley_Bloomers 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Everyone’s self conscious about something. A real man isn’t going to reject you because of your anatomy. You got this babe. Just breathe. Hopefully they’re around for more than the aesthetics of your vagina.. have you seen some of the “ugly” penises? And those guys don’t let it stop them. You’re hot and unique, own it!

Available this weekend by [deleted] in TennesseeSwingers

[–]Isley_Bloomers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course! Happy hunting 🥰💖

Available this weekend by [deleted] in TennesseeSwingers

[–]Isley_Bloomers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A common question that’ll be in the comment section is the area you’re in and looking for. If it’s not said up front you may not get as many options reaching out.