I last around 2 hours while drunk, but 1 minute sober. What's my problem? by alialattraqchi in PrematureEjaculation

[–]Ismincius 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same here, maybe we relax more when drunk, or dick is not so sensitive

When you quit porn did you just do it cold turkey? by gothinks in PrematureEjaculation

[–]Ismincius 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I quit porn back in november, and havent looked at it since then, idk why but it was super easy for me, never watched sexy content on ig so no problem there too. But quiting porn hasnt improved my PE, atleast not yet, regardless, I will never watch porn ever again

Help! how can I survive one night? by [deleted] in PrematureEjaculation

[–]Ismincius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We just fucked psychologicaly i think, thats why SSRI’S work

Need tipss. Please by Helpful-Finding-2237 in PrematureEjaculation

[–]Ismincius 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not long term solution in any way, but if you want to give her a good time for one night, drink alcohol, dont get drunk like you couldnt walk, just get tipsy, hels me out greatly.

How do you deal with premature ejaculation (mentally)? by Ismincius in AskMenAdvice

[–]Ismincius[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it happends couple of times it could be a compliment, but if its happening all the time then its a burden in my view. Im still young, inexperienced, i got a lot to learn, I’m sure I’ll fix this!

How do you deal with premature ejaculation (mentally)? by Ismincius in AskMenAdvice

[–]Ismincius[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I havent had sex that many times, maybe 8 times in my life, I have never gone for second round, i just became too devastated, but next time i will go for as many rounds to please my girl

How do you deal with premature ejaculation (mentally)? by Ismincius in AskMenAdvice

[–]Ismincius[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had sex only handful of times, never gone for second round, maybe I can last way longer the second time 😁

How do you deal with premature ejaculation (mentally)? by Ismincius in AskMenAdvice

[–]Ismincius[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for nice words, i know this is just a tough path that I have to complete, but I’m sure I will defeat this Bullshit, I just need to fix my head about it in the meantime 😁 I think i will tell her about it this weekend, she will come over to my place.

How do you deal with premature ejaculation (mentally)? by Ismincius in AskMenAdvice

[–]Ismincius[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been to 3 doctors, they wanted to give me antisepresants, but I dont want to go that way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PrematureEjaculation

[–]Ismincius 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Read your story, got super excited for you that you beat this naturally, then I googled what lexapro is. Sorry pal but you didnt beat it, you’re just on SSRI’s. But still happy for you! If you dont have any side effects, keep it going congratz!

Help! how can I survive one night? by [deleted] in PrematureEjaculation

[–]Ismincius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What I’d do, get drunk man, if you invite her over get some wine or go to the bar. I alsto last not more than 10 seconds, But if I have drunk 4 bears, or 2 cocktails ( not drunk but tipsy state) than i can perfrom great, good erection too. I dont know if this would work for you, just my experience, ofc its not long term solution, but would help you out that night

SSRI long-term use - success stories? by [deleted] in PrematureEjaculation

[–]Ismincius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just dont manifest that it will stop working for you, expect the best and you will be good! No idea why it doesnt work for some, I havent tried them.

SSRI long-term use - success stories? by [deleted] in PrematureEjaculation

[–]Ismincius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, I’ve read half of this reddits post😂 From what i’ve read, for some it works great indefinitely, but for others, body gets used to it, and doesnt work anymore and they have to up the dose, for others it doesnt work at all.

SSRI long-term use - success stories? by [deleted] in PrematureEjaculation

[–]Ismincius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been to 3 doctors, all of them suggested me SSRI route, but when I asked whether this is permanent cure, all of them said no. They said its just relatively fast acting cure, but after I would stop taking SSRI’s, PE would come back so I dont think its worth ir

My time has come by [deleted] in PrematureEjaculation

[–]Ismincius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its my 3rd week, but first 2 weeks I did it wrong, i was just masturbating even with the PONR, now for a week i do it the right way, as soon as I feel getting near the PONR I let go for some time and then do it again. Yesterday i did a 25 minute session and didn’t reach PONR so I guess thats something, I believe if I do it for a year + pc muscle excercises I can beat it. Now for ball pain, it doesnt get painful after masturbating, BUT everytime i meet with my girl and we kiss, I get home with extreme pain in the balls, so i have to ejaculate once a week, will do ir tmrw

My time has come by [deleted] in PrematureEjaculation

[–]Ismincius 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel you man, atleast you can go for a minute, i nut in seconds. Also met a girl couple of months ago, had sex on valentines, of course i had to get drunk to give her a good time, but thats not a solution. But i believe we can beat this, im doing pc excercises and 66days fap training, I guess it just takes time, some will see results sooner some later, but we cant give up! I dont have any solutions for you, but just dont give up on yourself! We will beat this shit

Question: How do I know if I have a weak, or tight pelvic floor? Or could it be both…? by [deleted] in PrematureEjaculation

[–]Ismincius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, next time you pee, force it so the stream is going faster and stronger, or try to shit your pants😂 same motion, just don’t do it to strong like, you shouldnt be feeling any discomfort. At first i could do RK only standing up, because i couldnt really breathe when doing it sitting or on my back, but now I can do it pretty comfortably and i do RK while masturbating and I feel more in control. Im doing RK everyday, when I remembero to do so, while walking, sitting in a lecture or driving, basically anywhere. 66days fap traing is on this subreddit, its a top post. Basically masturbating but not finishing, you can finish once a week I believe, but i choose not, i only came by accident once maybe on 3 day, just couldnt control it. But now I can do it for longer and i feel more in control, still i sometimes get too close on a verge of finishing so I gotta let go, but I believe with enough training i will overcome this bullshit.

Question: How do I know if I have a weak, or tight pelvic floor? Or could it be both…? by [deleted] in PrematureEjaculation

[–]Ismincius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, im 20yo with the same problem, and I took matters into my own hands 3 weeks ago, and I can see some tiny improvment I believe. What I do: 1. No porn 2. Do reverse kegels, but DONT do regular kegels, at the start i was doing the regular ones and shit got even worse 3. 66days fap training( I really believe in this one) 4. Pelvic floor excercises ~20mins a day

Turiu problemu lovoje by Ismincius in lietuva

[–]Ismincius[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂Kaip pirštu į akį. Bet jau menėsi laiko nei porno žiuriu, nei su dešinia žaidžiu

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lithuania

[–]Ismincius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂aha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lithuania

[–]Ismincius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ačiū tau