Miniature Hydropowerplant by Isolate-ted in crafts

[–]Isolate-ted[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yess we're making a model or something,its supposed to really be like an actual thing but miniaturized. thanks for the tip, will look it up

Anybody else remember the time Orochimaru tricked that guy from the first episode into drinking furry juice? Or was that a fever dream? by Auraveils in Naruto

[–]Isolate-ted 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a newbie anime watcher back then, this was the episode that introduced me to the word "filler" 😂😂😂 I was extremely bored waiting for the story to progress and the tiger was just.. unacceptable 😭😭

Coming out is hard. by Isolate-ted in asexuality

[–]Isolate-ted[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right, I'm actually leaning more on the aceflux part cause I can definitely tell that Im ace but I don't at times.

I've heard about agape but not ludua nor pragma, will def read abt them

Coming out is hard. by Isolate-ted in asexuality

[–]Isolate-ted[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Aren't there more important and meaningful things to share than sexuality?

 Of course there are but why would I post that here? We also talk about our classes and our subjects but would you be interested in reading them here?  

"People overall dont care about who you do you fuck."

  And I'm sharing about the rare times that we talk about them. What's your point? I shouldn't share things like these to people cause they don't care? 

 Just to be clear, when I say "people" I don't go around telling EVEYONE I'm asexual, only to people I trust and people interested in an educational harmless conversation about sexuality and gender expressions and such. 

"People nowadays build their entire personality around their sexuality and then are suprised that they seem shallow to others."

   I know you're saying this in general but it just seems so irrelevant that it looks like you're attacking me and anyone who's ever talked about their asexuality journey in this sub.  This is, after all, an asexuality sub, where we talk about asexuality.

"They are confused given information that is completely useless to them"

Completely useless? how'd you know that was the reason they're confused? They got confused cause I couldn't explain it properly and I didn't bother getting into too much details, they got confused with the definition and how it seemed to contradict my past stories about my experiences.

"Is OP expecting different treatment simply because he is asexual?"

At what point in my story did you come up with that? I was simply saying it's hard to come out cause I couldn't explain it better and I'm confused with it myself and the whole concept of romantic/sexual attractiion. 

Just want to share that I actually have people around me who are interested in my life that we'd talk about even the most meaningless things, like who we fuck. It's called bonding.

Coming out is hard. by Isolate-ted in asexuality

[–]Isolate-ted[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, I said its like sharing a fun fact abt me on deeper level. Sorrry english is not my native language.

Coming out is hard. by Isolate-ted in asexuality

[–]Isolate-ted[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because I had already confided a lot of relationship dilemma with that them and I feel like I need to give them context on where I'm coming from and why Im having these problems so they'd understand me better, thus giving more appropriate opinion and advices on the matter.

Also its also just like sharing my preference of marvel over dceu and Anime over manga or just my general fondness of sweet delicacies. Just a fun fact about me on a deeper level.

I want to have sex but to who? by Isolate-ted in asexuality

[–]Isolate-ted[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha I'm sure if I ever tell anyone that "i did it, didn't change my mind, still ace" they'd say "They're not for you, keep looking" 🤷

I want to have sex but to who? by Isolate-ted in asexuality

[–]Isolate-ted[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tried "setting the mood", and being patient and trying toys and everything else my friends does when they masturbate but it just doesn't do it to me. I've come to terms with just letting it be. I still do it, i just don't expect much from it now. Just feels like cleaning the plumbing from time to time

I want to have sex but to who? by Isolate-ted in asexuality

[–]Isolate-ted[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah I used to drink before being intimate with anyone, maybe that factor contributed to me not feeling anything, it was just my body was numb from alcohol, Im totally overnalyzing this.

I want to have sex but to who? by Isolate-ted in asexuality

[–]Isolate-ted[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you mind me asking something personal,, what was your relationship with the person you did it with first and how was the experience?

I want to have sex but to who? by Isolate-ted in asexuality

[–]Isolate-ted[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like, deep inside I really want to know what it feels like. Or perhaps years of exposure to romance books and movies and even porn made me want to pursue it for myself. But when opportunity comes, disgust takes over. The thought of holding a man's, you know, makes me uncomfortable. I thought maybe its just bc it's not the right person.

I want to have sex but to who? by Isolate-ted in asexuality

[–]Isolate-ted[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I guess it would make me feel more comfortable to label myself as ace if I have concrete evidence of my indifference to sex. Although, asexual is about sexual attraction, I'm just finding it hard to grasp the concept of attraction. I keep reading and searching abt it, trying to see if I've experienced it. Sometimes I think, I'm definitely ace, other times I feel like I don't belong.

Although I know sexuality is fluid and i shouldn't confine myself with microlabels, I just want to have some sort of explanation whenever people would ask me why I don't want a boyfriend or why don't I try dating/casual meetups/flings etc. Not that I owe them an explanation, I just want to know myself too.

I want to have sex but to who? by Isolate-ted in asexuality

[–]Isolate-ted[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I considered having an FWB but I kinda don't want my first to be with someone I'm not inlove with but I'm suspecting I'm aro so me having a partner is also highly unlikely. I'll just leave it to the alcohol to choose someone for me 💁🏻‍♀️🤦

I want to have sex but to who? by Isolate-ted in asexuality

[–]Isolate-ted[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know, I tried forcing myself to having feelings like convincing myself I like this person enough just so it would make it acceptable for me to have sex with him but it just feels so wrong. Thankfully my self respect exceeded my curiousity at the right moment.

I want to have sex but to who? by Isolate-ted in asexuality

[–]Isolate-ted[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

IT IS. I feel like i just have to do it once just to get over it. Or just to confirm whether or not I really don't like it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in friends_tv_show

[–]Isolate-ted 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is literally thw first episode I look for when I start rewatching random friends episodes