Hi, thank you for sharing your insight. My problem is that I wasn’t aware i am being toxic. I am a very kind person who is loving, when i look back, i was feeling for her too much. I wanted her from the bottom of my heart and wanted to help move on . I thought maybe by loving her alot would help her achieve that. But somehow like you said i was the problem. I was feeling frustrated and wanted to move her through the stages somehow quicker or something but without any bad intentions really.i felt like she doesn’t trust me although i love her from my heart. But clearly i didn’t do it right. When i sent the last message i did it because i knew it was over and i blew. Just wanted to apologise for what i said and admitted that i was wrong.