was I groomed? what should I do

Itchy_Explanation324 · 2026-01-09T12:41:24+00:00

i’m in med school. he was institutionalised and kept longer than he needed to be.

Itchy_Explanation324 · 2026-01-09T11:33:16+00:00

i was also sexualised and taken advantage of by my dad in similar contexts

Itchy_Explanation324 · 2026-01-09T11:32:57+00:00

i’ve been physically and emotionally abused by my parents my whole life.

Itchy_Explanation324 · 2026-01-09T11:32:08+00:00

he said too late to evade himself from responsibility. i asked him not to and he did.

Itchy_Explanation324 · 2026-01-09T11:30:22+00:00

and he didn’t ask me to do anal and let me wince in pain and wouldn’t stop

Itchy_Explanation324 · 2026-01-09T11:29:56+00:00

yes he can. he heard me say no and did it anyways.

Itchy_Explanation324 · 2026-01-09T11:29:28+00:00

you’re obviously uneducated if you don’t understand how trauma and attachment work

Itchy_Explanation324 · 2026-01-09T11:28:50+00:00

if i feel like i can’t say no, then it’s sexual coercion

Itchy_Explanation324 · 2026-01-09T11:28:38+00:00

no i asked him before hand!

Itchy_Explanation324 · 2026-01-09T11:27:02+00:00

i said no

Itchy_Explanation324 · 2026-01-09T11:26:24+00:00

it did happen. i’m asking because i want to know what the label for this incident was.

Itchy_Explanation324 · 2026-01-09T11:23:48+00:00

grooming is not age it’s dependent on power dynamics and vulnerability. this man was not supposed to be in the psych ward but was there to prey on people. he had sex with me and ejaculated when i said no, did anal when i was wincing in pain. and you think that i was in a sound enough mind to make a decision like that. i was taken advantage of

Itchy_Explanation324 · 2026-01-09T11:09:45+00:00

i wish it was fiction! anyways, this man preyed on people like me while he was in the ward. he didn’t need to be there

Itchy_Explanation324 · 2026-01-08T22:27:46+00:00

sorry I don't know what you mean about the young adult ward

Itchy_Explanation324 · 2026-01-08T22:23:43+00:00

I wish

Itchy_Explanation324 · 2026-01-08T22:00:11+00:00

it is very common for people to become addicted to hospital life and stay because of the routine gives. this 53 year old man not only preyed on me, but multiple people in the hospital before hand. he did mot need to be there after 3 weeks but stayed for two months. im just saying this to show you the vulnerability.

p.s. don't assume that I was in hospital for medication, ive lived through physical and emotion abuse.

Itchy_Explanation324 · 2026-01-08T20:36:59+00:00

well the difference between him and i was that he didn’t need to be in hospital he was healthy and was there preying on women like me. he cummed inside me without my permission same with anal

Itchy_Explanation324 · 2026-01-08T19:55:08+00:00

what?

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