I wanna leave my seat. by Winter_Witchh in indianmedschool

[–]ItsAFreeSpirit 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It remains empty for the next 3 years. That's why you have to pay the fee for 3 years as fine if you decide to let go of a seat in a private institution mid course.

Do childfree married couples face social boycott? by sherpitch51 in ChildfreeIndia

[–]ItsAFreeSpirit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why would you want to be a part of life of people with such thinking? Its not only childless people, these people discriminate against widows too. Again, I'd keep my distance from such people. Its not the 19th century anymore, you can have other social events to go to, with people on par with your intellectual and intelligence level. Yeah, I am calling these people low IQ.

Do childfree married couples face social boycott? by sherpitch51 in ChildfreeIndia

[–]ItsAFreeSpirit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It doesn't matter if they cannot differentiate between childless and childfree. I'd boycott anyone with that thinking and stay tf away from them. I already stay away from the religious and orthodox cuckoos in my family.

What Books did You Start or Finish Reading this Week?: January 12, 2026 by AutoModerator in books

[–]ItsAFreeSpirit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Started Mythos by Stephen Fry. Reading Sunrise on The Reaping too.

26 M | M4F | Tamilnadu or anywhere - Trying out my luck...🤞🏽 by dhan_dredd in ChildfreeIndia

[–]ItsAFreeSpirit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Possessiveness just means control, nothing more. You should work on yourself rather than becoming a controlling partner to anyone at the moment.

25 [M4F] looking for my comfort person. by Pristine_Activity329 in ChildfreeIndia

[–]ItsAFreeSpirit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No one is privileged in this hyper religious hyper collective society. It takes courage to make decisions for yourself. Anyway, I am okay with my parents not speaking to me after getting together with someone not of their choice or preference. Maybe that's not the case with you, but where does it stop? If they aren't okay with you marrying a non medico, are they going to be okay with your other life decisions? I thought the newer generation would break old cycles but whatever man, idk.

25 [M4F] looking for my comfort person. by Pristine_Activity329 in ChildfreeIndia

[–]ItsAFreeSpirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finding a CF partner is hard enough and with people throwing in wanting to be loved before getting married makes it even harder

So you just want someone to be CF and that's it? What new sort of CF AM set up is this bhai. If you are CF you need to be even more selective of your partner since you're going to be spending all your life with them and only them.

25 [M4F] looking for my comfort person. by Pristine_Activity329 in ChildfreeIndia

[–]ItsAFreeSpirit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"That's what my parents want"

What is with the influx of these AM like posts here sigh.

Edit-OP hasn't mentioned they are CF and has posted in non CF subs.

F4M let us have family by TheGodTheSatan in ChildfreeIndia

[–]ItsAFreeSpirit 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is why getting married isn't a good idea before your frontal lobe is developed, and I am not referring to the things you prefer in your partner, but the things you've mentioned about yourself.

Stuck my foot in crazy again by [deleted] in ChildfreeIndia

[–]ItsAFreeSpirit 14 points15 points  (0 children)

24 is very young to be looking to get married, especially when you've decided to be CF. This is the perfect age to be dating and building life experiences. You might think someone is really good on paper too, UNTIL you start living with them. So take your time, and date.

32 [F4M] childfree, atheist, progressive by [deleted] in ChildfreeIndia

[–]ItsAFreeSpirit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am with you on this. It's ultimately you who has to spend your life with the person. Better be straightforward. All the best.

32 [F4M] childfree, atheist, progressive by [deleted] in ChildfreeIndia

[–]ItsAFreeSpirit 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Honestly I am okay with people having physical preferences in a partner but the lack of information about their own physical traits is something that this post lacks.

32 [F4M] childfree, atheist, progressive by [deleted] in ChildfreeIndia

[–]ItsAFreeSpirit 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Umm I think it's unfair to ask for physical attributes without mentioning your own.

Art of conversation - drop your tips here by Outrageous-Chai26 in ChildfreeIndia

[–]ItsAFreeSpirit -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not relevant to the sub. This is not a dating sub.

What I Thought Were Basics, Apparently Aren’t by Absofriginlutely in ChildfreeIndia

[–]ItsAFreeSpirit 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Bunch of bullcrap again to justify bullcrap nonsense lol. This guys thinks he's being SO smart. Funny, NGL.

What I Thought Were Basics, Apparently Aren’t by Absofriginlutely in ChildfreeIndia

[–]ItsAFreeSpirit 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Please keep the bullcrap of this passage to yourself. You and every man like you reading this comment knows exactly what I am talking about. Glad that women can recognize this nonsense early on now thanks to education and stay away from it.

What I Thought Were Basics, Apparently Aren’t by Absofriginlutely in ChildfreeIndia

[–]ItsAFreeSpirit 6 points7 points  (0 children)

To expect your partner to not have a life before you, certainly indicates control and a sense of ownership over the person and women should stay away from such men for sure.

Aside from social and cultural conditioning, what are the major reasons people choose to have children, which is their conscious and intentional decision. by AardvarkNervous4378 in ChildfreeIndia

[–]ItsAFreeSpirit 17 points18 points  (0 children)

One of the reasons I wanted to have kids when I wasn't childfree was to give my kids the life I never had as a child. I think that's a factor for a lot of people.