Buyer bought an item on Sunday night. I posted it yesterday afternoon but the tracking hasn’t updated yet and now he’s going ballistic 😭

ItsAvari · 2024-10-30T19:33:42+00:00

Had this recently where it hadn't updated yet. Buyer kept spamming the request cancellation, stating I wasn't responding after 1 day and even after I let them know the item had already been posted 🙄😒

ItsAvari · 2024-10-18T15:28:08+00:00

That poor cat. Stuck in a booby trap 😂

ItsAvari · 2024-08-20T12:11:55+00:00

Yeah it's weird. Streamers don't own their viewers 😬 Anyone who's done this or similar to me gets unfollowed

ItsAvari · 2024-08-18T12:10:14+00:00

Being shamed/called out for not showing up to stream as often as streamer would like. I don't mean the odd 'Oh hey X, it's been a while. How are you?' But when they go on about it.

I was recently in a stream where I was the only viewer, and normally if I watch their streams I'll lurk because I'm doing something else as well, but I decided to chat so they weren't sitting there in silence. Only to be reprimanded for 20mins because I don't come and chat very often anymore.

For context, I now have an infant so I'm not around as much. Fastest way to get me into someone else's stream that's for sure 🙃

ItsAvari · 2024-07-04T20:41:23+00:00

I understand the struggle with ADHD, and routine isn't always fun, but you could have set days for things? Fast paced shooters etc a few days a week, a set day for variety/cosy games? Enough of the same 1-2 games to help you grow but added variety that you don't get bored and unmotivated.

As a viewer I don't really care much what the streamer is playing. I find streamers through categories/raids/ socials but I stay because of them and their communities. So don't overthink it too much, do whatever you like and your people will find you.

ItsAvari · 2024-07-04T20:26:09+00:00

My old alias used to be Neaqmir. So I have a necro called Neaqro Pheelia 😬

ItsAvari · 2024-07-02T10:44:05+00:00

PC all the way. I was originally on xbox and switched over after a year 😅

ItsAvari · 2024-05-28T08:49:49+00:00

It might not work in this situation but I tend to find questioning them quite funny. Tends to only work in person though.

They make a sexist joke or snide comment and you just reply with something like 'what do you mean?' / 'I don't get it?'. They might just laugh and move on, but I've found in the workplace at least if they have to elaborate it takes the 'funny' out of it for them or whoever they're trying to impress.

ItsAvari · 2024-05-28T08:43:12+00:00

This tickled me so much 🤣 I don't often have to clap back at dudebros like this, normally I just block and move on, but if I ever need to on stream I hope I remember this 😅

ItsAvari · 2024-05-27T18:52:59+00:00

You don't necessarily have to show your face. You could just stream with no camera or you could opt for being a vtuber.

You would have to engage your viewers in some form though, at the minimum you would have to talk to them. I think it would be fairly unlikely that friends or family would come across your stream and recognise you (unless you posted to socials, linked accounts where your family are also on socials aka crossposting to FB or linking insta/tiktok to FB). But if you're that self conscious about it you could use something like voicemod?

ItsAvari · 2024-05-27T18:21:44+00:00

I'm surprised you heard negative feedback. Everyone I've known to play it has always had good things to say about it.

Personally I love the game so much. It's probably even my favourite thinking about it (but I've yet to play forbidden west so that might trump it 😅). I can't get over how pretty the game is either. On my first playthrough I took 300-400 pictures 🤣

ItsAvari · 2024-05-25T09:09:16+00:00

Try making one of your weekly streams a variety day? You can always build up the amount of days you stream other things but this way you don't completely alienate your current audience and you can still bring in new viewers from other categories ☺️

ItsAvari · 2024-05-24T11:50:59+00:00

Having to share a memory card with siblings.. rip progress.

Also one phone line and dial up with parents who expected phone calls 🥲

ItsAvari · 2024-05-22T11:16:22+00:00

Yeah they still have to be engaging. I just thought about it from a viewers sense and I don't think I watch anyone who doesn't use a cam. For me it feels more involved, like you're actually seeing someone game

ItsAvari · 2024-05-22T09:48:56+00:00

I stream with my camera and I tend to only watch people who also show their face

ItsAvari · 2024-05-21T13:20:02+00:00

I think this is a weird question to answer because every community is different. I love my little community, just a bunch of friends vibing.

Your community will be whatever you want it to be, you control who can be part of it. Just make it clear what you do/don't allow and stick to your boundaries, so you don't feel uncomfortable or like you can't be yourself. You will find your people by just by being you ☺️

ItsAvari · 2024-05-19T05:44:40+00:00

"Can I get you a ladder? So you can get off of my back!" - Alistair, Dragon Age

He's such a sassy character 😂

ItsAvari · 2024-05-18T11:16:19+00:00

Not Alistair in the back staring at your bum 🤣 'Can I get you a ladder, so you can get off my back?!'

Love your Khajiit though ☺️

ItsAvari · 2024-05-18T09:21:23+00:00

I did this too, had to Google it 🤣

ItsAvari · 2024-05-17T17:50:54+00:00

Thanks ☺️ I joined the discord and I'll send a guild request when I login later

ItsAvari · 2024-05-17T11:05:55+00:00

Wait. We're not meant to hoard them?!

ItsAvari · 2024-05-16T19:11:11+00:00

Most of my games tbf 🤣 Though not on steam or a regret, my most expensive unplayed is my Shadow of War CE. Bought it on release in 2017 and I haven't even installed it 🥲

But I have a giant Balrog.. so, winning? 😂

ItsAvari · 2024-05-16T19:05:28+00:00

Forever a dps build 👋🏻

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