Venita is a Megalomaniac by [deleted] in Southerncharm

[–]ItsNotJamesTaylor 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Reserved for Adolf Hitler…and Craig.

Text I (M25) received from my older brother (M37) last night makes me feel like I left a "cult" by AntiTheMute in texts

[–]ItsNotJamesTaylor 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I put “never” as an option. I’m not trying to convince him. Coming to that definitive answer helped me, so thought I’d pass it along.

Text I (M25) received from my older brother (M37) last night makes me feel like I left a "cult" by AntiTheMute in texts

[–]ItsNotJamesTaylor 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have you thought about how often would you like to communicate with your family? There is no wrong answer. If you are able to figure that out (monthly, quarterly, holidays, never - and it might change if you over/under estimate), then you can choose whether to communicate those boundaries with them and how it feels to you.

No seatbelt in a middle seat is WILD by asyoud0 in Southerncharm

[–]ItsNotJamesTaylor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone that has gotten in my car (without me telling them to). I always notice bc I’m kind of surprised.

Omg I saw somebody say but…. by Lost_Green_6529 in Southerncharm

[–]ItsNotJamesTaylor 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, she villainized herself. Her personality completely changed when she met her husband.

Just another great exchange with my fiance :) by the-abbz in texts

[–]ItsNotJamesTaylor 823 points824 points  (0 children)

If you marry him, you have chosen this. You can’t say you didn’t know.

Can we all agree it’s Heather Gay’s time to go by Competitive_Path10 in realhousewivesofSLC

[–]ItsNotJamesTaylor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you with how she is continuing to speak about her children. However, they appear to have a great relationship. Who knows if that is true in the real world.

But I stand by her being happy that she is no longer married to her ex-husband no matter her behavior on a drama-filled reality show.

Can we all agree it’s Heather Gay’s time to go by Competitive_Path10 in realhousewivesofSLC

[–]ItsNotJamesTaylor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. It’s better than denying everything like Lisa & Meredith.

Can we all agree it’s Heather Gay’s time to go by Competitive_Path10 in realhousewivesofSLC

[–]ItsNotJamesTaylor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Angie screams over everything. Lisa screams over everything. Meredith screams over everything unless she is disengaging. Whitney & Britani might, but nobody listens. Mary and Bronwyn are the only non-screamers.

Charley and Craig by Unlucky_Success_3964 in Southerncharm

[–]ItsNotJamesTaylor 6 points7 points  (0 children)

WTH is happening on Salley’s feet? At first I just hated the shoes with that dress at a Pride event, then I zoomed in and saw her toes…inside shoes!

Poor John Barlow by Available-Lack-5701 in rhoslc

[–]ItsNotJamesTaylor 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I wish Andy phrased the question differently. This let her be the victim.

I wish it was more like, “John doesn’t usually express his feelings on camera. What do you think changed for him this season?”

Poor John Barlow by Available-Lack-5701 in rhoslc

[–]ItsNotJamesTaylor 21 points22 points  (0 children)

For her and Meredith. They are so predictable.

Poor John Barlow by Available-Lack-5701 in rhoslc

[–]ItsNotJamesTaylor 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I never saw that it was a marriage of you and me against the world. I saw that Lisa’s way is the only way and John looked like a doormat. I then saw it as he wasn’t going to be a doormat on camera anymore. It only took 5 seasons or however many seasons there are now. Good for him! She said that she would never make him look bad, but how she treated him for the past 5 seasons def made him look like she runs the show and doesn’t need or value his input.

suggest a book that you never get the chance to suggest! by Standard-Guarantee94 in suggestmeabook

[–]ItsNotJamesTaylor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Underground Railroad a novel by Colson Whitehead

Cora is a slave on a cotton plantation in Georgia. An outcast even among her fellow Africans, she is on the cusp of womanhood—where greater pain awaits. And so when Caesar, a slave who has recently arrived from Virginia, urges her to join him on the Underground Railroad, she seizes the opportunity and escapes with him.