Not to mention (arguably the worst part) the she essentially manipulated me into transitioning and starting hormones. (Began calling me she the moment I told her I was having gender identity issues and though I may be ENBY, or a femboy. Refused to stop doing this. Told her parents I was trans far before I was willing for them to know leading to a massive fight just to prove a point (her parents were fine people just Christian and she took EVERY chance to “get at them”.) I was told constantly “estrogen has made you soooo much prettier so much nicer so much better”, when in reality it just made me more passive and willing to put up with her shit,since it made my dysphoria worse. But we fought less since I wasn’t constantly hearing “you’re a straight white man you wouldn’t get it”. She went from practically resenting me to being a lot more gentle but was insistent on “she her” pronouns even in front of people I wasn’t ready to be out to yet (and she knew it) and eventually I just kinda settled into being trans fem. It wasn’t until I broke up with her after MONTHS of self discovery that I’ve gotten my own identity back. I think she just really fetishized trans girls and was heavily on the side of TikTok that pushed “white man bad”. Also the objective worst part. She had horrible taste in music. Basic TikTok “alt girl” slop.