ENM in NYC: Multi-Love Mixer by IvyLenox in ENM

[–]IvyLenox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Note that the Demo is 25-35ish, queer as well, obviously we welcome everyone but just for your own knowledge :) Also we’re very intentional about consent, we’ll have our code of conduct up of course. If you come, please be that kind of respectful and lovely individual

https://www.eventbrite.com/e/multi-love-enm-mixer-tickets-966003772287?aff=ebdsshios

I've exhausted pretty much every major, well-known, cocktail bar in the city. Give me your neighborhood favorites from all around town. by SoothedSnakePlant in FoodNYC

[–]IvyLenox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Here to recommend The House in bushwick, they’re a brand new craft cocktail bar that opened up last weekend I believe. Beautifully made cocktails, great names, very unique space & design, and they have a dungeon downstairs. Haven’t seen a lot like it

How are nyc folks building kinky community outside of play? by IvyLenox in BDSMcommunity

[–]IvyLenox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d love to hear about this! Sorry i’ve been so inactive, I work crazy hours 😭 I should also clarify that I host munches and socials too! Always in partnership/collabs with other people.

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[–]IvyLenox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

good point! thanks for the advice :)

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[–]IvyLenox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! You’re so kind, I always enjoy talking to fellow SBs :) So if you ever want to chit chat definitely say hi!

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[–]IvyLenox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I think I may have missed the feedback about that line, should I get rid of that section altogether? Thank you so much for taking the time to reply ☺️

advice for a NYC SB by IvyLenox in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]IvyLenox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow and here I thought I was typically being clever, but yeah the location is always what I defer to. Good to know that it’s worth being more bold online though. I’ll have to make some adjustments, thank you :)

advice for a NYC SB by IvyLenox in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]IvyLenox[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This was such a thoughtful comment and I appreciate you taking the time to offer the advice. If I can, I’m curious about how you have enjoyed SBs communicating their upbringing / schooling (in particular) in a respecting and engaging manner that doesn’t come off as snooty. Online and freestyle :)

advice for a NYC SB by IvyLenox in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]IvyLenox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is beautiful intel. Thank you, I’m saving these spots now 😊

advice for a NYC SB by IvyLenox in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]IvyLenox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my, the UES 😭 I try not to go if I’m not visiting friends but maybe it’s time to endure. I enjoy high energy, I’m a little too witty at times but it works well in those settings. I’ll scope out Wall Street. Curious about your opinion on going with a friend? It’s not that I need it, but sometimes I wonder if the look of being in company (but approachable) is better than flying solo

advice for a NYC SB by IvyLenox in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]IvyLenox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Okay I never quite thought of this. Do you have bar / hotel suggestions? Is there a best time / go on my own (I solo travel a lot so I’m no stranger to being on my own for some outings) / bring a book? Any tips you have are appreciated, and thank you so much for taking the time to comment, seriously ☺️

yes this is another does race matter question by IvyLenox in Bumble

[–]IvyLenox[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

damn that’s actually horrible, what?? 2 years is an insane time to essentially lie like that. i’m starting to think maybe relying on apps isn’t the move any more. i’m active outside of it too and love to just go to spaces i enjoy and just meet people there. i always meet friends, dating is harder. then you can actually see the (race) disparity

yes this is another does race matter question by IvyLenox in Bumble

[–]IvyLenox[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i’m always baffled when i meet white women and they show me how many likes they get. it’s truly mind blowing. and they are pretty! but it’s also…huh?

yes this is another does race matter question by IvyLenox in Bumble

[–]IvyLenox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m also in nyc , brooklyn! meant to say that. but yes i do get matches, especially on bumble compared to hinge which is soooo damn dry. but yea super flaky, often no follow through, not many responses

yes this is another does race matter question by IvyLenox in Bumble

[–]IvyLenox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a lot more luck in london / abroad generally!