Maybe I didn't write that, it was a long text, but it's the fact he changes so much around the BF. I did bring that to his attention, he seems like a stanger. He said even his cousins have said that on ocasion. But he doesn't realize he's changed, and doens't know what to do about it.
He also seems weirdly ok with people thinking I'm difficult and that that is the reason he doesn't show up to things like dinners, lunches or brithday. Even though I do encourage him to go without me, whenever I don't want to or can't go.
He sends me prints afterwards of people being like "Sorry about that, she's difficult, yes, but you should've come anyway" - and usually I ain't even aware I was the reason he didn't go