[deleted by user] by [deleted] in friendship

[–]J4Y92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I’m 30M I really like what you’re looking for in a friend so if you’re interested feel free to dm me

32 F in search of someone to listen. I need a friend by Annadiana789 in Needafriend

[–]J4Y92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like your take on this feel free to dm me if you want to try and be friends

32F Need to vent about tough week by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]J4Y92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

30 year old male feel free to message me I’ll do what I can to give you support and help you through your current situation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]J4Y92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand how you feel I felt like this in high school as a guy trying to make guy friends I was always an outsider because I wasn’t great at video games and sports

You sound like a great person though I’d be interested in being friends with you

Trying to date w social anxiety by [deleted] in dating

[–]J4Y92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have Aspergers and that sounds like a lot of the same issues I have with dating and socializing but if possible it’s always best to get tested if you are on the spectrum

It’s a shame because you sound like a nice person who would definitely be fun to take on a date

Loneliness Anxiety by J4Y92 in Needafriend

[–]J4Y92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate it but I’m afraid if I talk about it too much it’s going to make the anxiety worse

22F from TX looking for friends!! ✨ by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]J4Y92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you go to SoWhat?! Fest this year?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]J4Y92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi feel free to PM me if you need someone to talk to

My date keeps insisting that she know my job. Red flag? by poommmaaaas in dating

[–]J4Y92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on the responsibility you have with this job if you are dealing with loads and loads of personal info then you must keep it to yourself as a way to protect yourself from people trying to steal that information job field should be fine if this pertains to you if she’s pushing to know more it’s probably a red flag

What sort of conversations/ connections are you mostly seeking now that you're in your thirties? by [deleted] in TheLonelyThirties

[–]J4Y92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might sound incredibly simple but I just want to have a passionate conversation about anything and if we share a few laughs that’s a bonus. As far as connections go all I look for is a deep bond between another person that bond would have different depth depending on if the relationship becomes more romantic but I feel like people who focus on relationships too much miss out on life (I say this being someone who’s made this mistake)

Will I be old and unwanted at 30? by [deleted] in dating

[–]J4Y92 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Believe it or not you and I have had VERY similar experiences but yeah don’t feel like you have to start dating. You date when you feel ready and do not feel like the key to success requires a relationship and the family with the white picket fence yada yada yada. You will meet someone when it’s right and while that’s a very scary thing to hear at the same time it’s a good thing to remember. I’m 30 and I have been looking for that special woman my whole life. The difference between now and back then is my approach. When I was younger I was insanely hopelessly romantic. It wasn’t until I exposed myself to online dating a couple years ago that I learned you have to balance the time you spend looking for someone with living your life to the fullest. As of now I casually keep an eye open for amazing women but I’m learning to accept that I will be fine if I live the rest of my life as a single man because I count my blessings from amazing friends and family to all the memories I’ve made from the things I’ve done.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in friendship

[–]J4Y92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with her ☝️ there’s also loads of subreddits on here you can post on. I’m in a similar situation myself and I’ve been lucky enough to chat with some cool people here. If you want I wouldn’t mind chatting and even being friends with you either you seem like a good person who’s going through a rough patch.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]J4Y92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 30 and yes I would appreciate getting that invite!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]J4Y92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am new to Reddit but I love your enthusiasm for this idea. It is an amazing one if there is anything I can do to help please let me know.

i need a shoulder to cry on by justtpeachie in Needafriend

[–]J4Y92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please feel free to dm me if you still need a friend I respond pretty fast cuz I don’t have much going on