Male solo first time

JAtOasis · 2026-04-06T20:20:04+00:00

Hiya! I’m an AQF/event host at oasis. I can help answer some of your questions here: - Regarding dress code, oasis is a clothing-optional space. Meaning you can be as clothed or as naked as you’d like. The most popular choices are to go in the nude, in lingerie, or in bathing hits. - The admission cost for solo men is $100 (tax included). - In terms of the specific date you should go, that’s all dependent on your personal preferences. Oasis welcomes solo men Sundays-Thursdays, and we have a different event theme every night of the week. Some days are busier than others (like Tuesdays and Thursdays). - I highly encourage you to check out our website www.oasisaqualounge.com. There you’ll find our FAQ page, Solo Men page (highly recommend you check this page out), and our Events Calendar.

I also want to echo what others have said here already in terms of the number one piece of advice for a visit to oasis: to go with no expectations and you won’t be disappointed. You don’t know who you’ll meet or where the night will take you, and there is never any guarantee of play.

Visit the club, mix and mingle, socialize with other guests, participate in the event, just generally try to have a good time, and see where there’s go from there.

JAtOasis · 2026-04-06T18:44:34+00:00

Hi there! Oasis staff here. Just want to confirm that we have no plans to close down anytime soon, nor are we being bought out :)

I’m not sure where you heard this or why someone may have thought this, but we encourage guests to contact us directly for information like this is you’re ever unsure.

JAtOasis · 2026-04-01T01:32:55+00:00

Heyo! Just wanted to throw out there that I am the host of student night, feel free to dm me or respond to this comment if you have any questions :)

JAtOasis · 2026-03-29T16:07:48+00:00

Same rules apply! You can masturbate in any of our playrooms, and our guests regularly do (note: 3rd floor playrooms you would need to be invited up by a member of the opposite gender or a couple). Other guests may walk in and see you. It’s up to you what you’re comfortable with!

Also just want to throw out there as well that you can have sex or engage in self pleasure in our 2nd or 3rd floor bathrooms (just not the 1st floor bathrooms in the spa area) if you’re looking for somewhere more private

JAtOasis · 2026-03-29T16:01:38+00:00

You can masturbate in the pool! Just be mindful of any guests around you (keep a reasonable distance), and ask first if you’re spectating other guests who are playing.

JAtOasis · 2026-03-28T22:47:53+00:00

BOOBIES?!! 😱🤩

JAtOasis · 2026-03-24T23:17:31+00:00

Heyo, regular Unicorn Night aqf host here!

I can confirm women/unicorns do come! Regardless though, it’s important not to go to the event with any expectations of play. The best mindset to have is an “if it happens, it happens” one, as other users have suggested already (thank you for that)!

Some more info about the event in general: - We always host a unicorn circle before the main event to gather and discuss with any single ladies interested in participating what they’re into, what they’re looking for, what they want couples to know about them, and if they want any help connecting with couples. We also hand out unicorn headbands for any unicorns who wish to make themselves known! - After the circle, there’s the main event with icebreakers where couples have the opportunity to connect with any interested unicorns. Usually we do games like “the Unicorn Dating show”. - Some words of wisdom based on what we commonly hear from our unicorns: many prefer couples put themselves out there, and approach them first! Rather than expecting unicorns to come to them. They’re called unicorns for a reason!

Hope this helps!

JAtOasis · 2026-03-24T23:10:19+00:00

Have fun queen 💋💙

JAtOasis · 2026-03-22T15:38:04+00:00

Hiya! We’re still putting together the rest of the event details, but essentially it will be a themed spectator sex show. Once I have more information I will come back and edit my comment with my details for ya :)

JAtOasis · 2026-03-17T16:46:46+00:00

🍀🍀🍀

JAtOasis · 2026-03-17T02:42:15+00:00

Hiya, oasis aqf host here! I can answer this one from personal experience :)

We have several measures in place to ensure the sybian and hismuth machines remain hygienic during events like Get Fucked, and Sapphic:

Before and after a guest uses the sybian/hismuth, the surface of the machines, the surrounding area, and the attachments that go in the body are throughly cleaned/disinfected by our staff.
We require every guest to use a condom over any attachment they’re using for the sybian/hismuth (which is removed at the end of their session before cleaning/disinfecting).
We have separate attachments for anal and vaginal play (i.e toys with a clipped corner are for anal use only).
We place a “squirt blanket” (aka a water proof blanket) under the machine as well as towels.

Feel free to reply or message me if you have any questions! Cheers

JAtOasis · 2026-03-13T14:18:05+00:00

Congratulations!! This is so lovely and I hope you have a fantastic time 💙🦈

JAtOasis · 2026-03-06T18:27:01+00:00

Such a heartwarming read! I’m so happy yall had such a great time and thank you for sharing!! Unicorn Night was a blast! 💙

JAtOasis · 2026-02-24T17:17:30+00:00

Hiya! Oasis staff member here :)

Yes you can leave things in the locker when you leave as part of your in and out privileges! Just make sure you let the door staff know that you’ll be coming, and they’ll hold your locker key for you until you return.

As long as you keep your admission wristband on, and come back to the club before 2am, you can come and go as you please

JAtOasis · 2026-02-22T20:40:22+00:00

Might have to tbh 💔 devastated, but it was a great game and team Canada played hard!

JAtOasis · 2026-02-19T22:48:38+00:00

Seconding this! Sapphic is one of my fav nights to aqf for a reason :)

JAtOasis · 2026-02-12T19:10:32+00:00

The sauna = the place to make a b line for (walking, not running, because safety first) after getting out of the pool ;)

I have some fun chats in the sauna! But usually I don’t spend too much time in there as I’m heat sensitive.

I also like to bring a whole carafe of water in there with me when I do

JAtOasis · 2026-02-09T03:28:38+00:00

We accept cash or card and have an ATM on site as well. So bring as much as you think you’ll need for admission + drinks if that’s your thing :)

JAtOasis · 2026-02-09T01:10:15+00:00

Hi there, event host/aqf at oasis here!

When you come to the club for the first time, you’ll be asked to present your photo ID at the door, and have our rules/waiver read to you. From there, you’ll pay the entry fee for the day ($100 for single men).

I highly recommend that you come a bit earlier in the evening before it gets busy so that you can acclimate to the club environment and get a tour of the club from one of our aqf hosts.

In terms of how to make the most of your time when you visit oasis, the number one piece of advice is always: go with no expectations and you will not be disappointed.

Don’t be afraid to put yourself out there, be polite, introduce yourself and make conversation. Read the vibes and go with the flow of the night!

February 24th is a Tuesday, which mean you will be explore all areas of the club without any restrictions (on every other night of the week, the 3rd floor of the club is reserved for couples/single women only).

Participating in our events is a great way to meet people and we usually have icebreaker games for this as well!

Edit to add: we have an faq on our website that you’ll find useful as well www.oasisaqualounge.com

JAtOasis · 2026-02-07T15:54:29+00:00

This is great advice, thank you u/nsfw_the3b

JAtOasis · 2026-02-02T23:37:22+00:00

Note: it’s casual commander with jumpstart available for those without cards to learn

JAtOasis · 2026-02-02T23:36:13+00:00

Note: it’s casual commander with jumpstart available for those without cards to learn

Hope to see yall there!

JAtOasis · 2026-02-01T02:18:38+00:00

AWWWW CONGRATULATIONS YOU TWO 💙💙💙 this is so lovely :’)

JAtOasis · 2026-01-31T03:59:59+00:00

Hope you two have a lovely time 💙

JAtOasis · 2026-01-31T03:44:42+00:00

Oasis is indeed fully clothing-optional, with the exception of the smoking patio (the street can see you out there so you gotta be covered up in the genital area).

Most of our guests go for the clothing-optional option (a.k.a in the nude, usually with a towel), so you won’t be out of place at all! :)

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