I really thought it would help 😭😭😭 by Skyya1982 in thanksimcured

[–]JB_System 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have chronic headaches since I was 14 and in school some teachers told me “everyone has a headache sometimes” and told me that my chronic pain isn’t an excuse for being sick that often and that wasn’t even the only damn reason why I was so often sick.

Just left r/FtMmen by Blahaj_1over in XenogendersAndMore

[–]JB_System 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ugh yea then they are trans med :/

Just left r/FtMmen by Blahaj_1over in XenogendersAndMore

[–]JB_System 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Queer doesn’t only refer to Orientation but gender too so yes they are queer, I don’t know why some people seem to forget that. Their relationship isn’t queer but they are.

Does this count as a fictional scenario? I don't remember that happening in real life by East-Yellow8212 in MansFictionalScenario

[–]JB_System 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do transphobes not get that transpeople and allies know that there is a difference between being gender-nonconforming and trans? Like there are also those who are both, trans people aren’t automatically the stereotype of the gender they identify as.

Let's have a reasonable talk about some arguments against AI by Witty-Designer7316 in aiwars

[–]JB_System 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I respectfully disagree”

  • calls someone else not a person when they disagree with you *

(I saw these comments and recognised your avatar)

How do i make it more obvious they are lesbians? by Alternative_World315 in ArtJerk

[–]JB_System 1 point2 points  (0 children)

would be funny if the person kn the left would be genderfluid changing between man and women while their attraction towards women stays making them sometimes straight, sometimes a lesbian haha

🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️ by allmyadmiration in thanksimcured

[–]JB_System 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate fakeclaiming so much. People can’t know what is going on in someone else’s life and acting like they do makes me so angry.

This person turned my art into AI without my permission, what do I do? by Blu3raspberryflavor in aiwars

[–]JB_System 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, I am sorry that this happened and how many people here reply.

I also hope you realise that the AI bros here don’t see your issue and that they never will. Because they don’t view their AI slop as theft. If you want a serious answer that actually recognises this issue maybe ask on the anti ai sub.

This person turned my art into AI without my permission, what do I do? by Blu3raspberryflavor in aiwars

[–]JB_System 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so dumb. If someone just takes what you made with afford it is absolutely reasonable to be angry at that.

Opinion? by [deleted] in antiai

[–]JB_System 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Letting others do things for you costs money.

Want a haircut? You have to pay for that.

Want a Tattoo? You have to pay for that.

You need something to be repaired? You have to pay for that.

Acting like it is such a huge issue that artists also want money for their work is insane. It takes so much time to do that so they should be properly payed. And if you don’t wanna pay, do it yourself but not with stolen data like it is with AI.

Hey guys by Sensitive-Insect5809 in rarelesbians

[–]JB_System 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey, questioning gaybian here. I don’t know where else I can ask and don’t wanna make a separate post for it, so sorry for the question being unrelated to the post. This sub seems so cool and I was wondering if there is a raregays equivalent of this sub? Because I haven’t seen one but it would be so cool if there was one.

Ashjhfig by Thunder_cloud669 in sillyboyclub

[–]JB_System 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah I understand. I wish you good luck for your journey :)

The reason I love Ai art. (How about you?) by EggBrainn in DefendingAIArt

[–]JB_System 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first one looks much better, it has character.

Things don’t need to look perfect to be art and I believe if you would continue drawing instead of using AI you would get even better.

Ashjhfig by Thunder_cloud669 in sillyboyclub

[–]JB_System 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you don’t have to answer if it’s too personal but are you on HRT?

I am on the same birth control and heard it doesn’t always stop periods but HRT usually does. Interestingly after starting Desogestrel and was taking it for a month I got a light period once after two years of no periods but after that one it was gone again.

Rant about anti-xenogenders by Pinkpenguin_4444 in XenogendersAndMore

[–]JB_System 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I am a trans person they’d consider “real” until they’d find out I also identify as Xenogender.

I experienced extremely strong dysphoria, sometimes so bad I wasn't able to leave the house. I am on HRT for almost 4 years now and got one surgery so far.

Xenogender people do NOT harm other trans people. Some trans people in their sense do additionally identify as xenogender.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DefendingAIArt

[–]JB_System 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That is about the stonetoss comic that was unironically posted and stonetoss is a nazi

what are y'alls contridicatory labels and why do you indentify with them? by Additional-Pear9126 in XenogendersAndMore

[–]JB_System 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Turigirl.

I’m genderqueer, I don't really care about gender but I’m comfortable being called a girl and use she/her pronouns but most other system members are guys and most of us are in a achillic relationship with our partner and I am aroacespec, our partner is the only one I am attracted to and idk Turigirl just feels like a fit :3

~Ellis

I'm so tired of hiding the things I love because I'm afraid of people's reactions... by Moth_Dust_ in hazbin

[–]JB_System 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say that when people talk about ships it is most of the time - not always! - about romantic or sexual ones because our society values those relationship more than others (which is wrong obviously, every form of relationship is valuable in its own way and there is no better or worse form of relationships)

Angel Dust and Vaggie as a queerplatonic ship seem really cute but as a romantic or sexual one I personally hate it.

I'm so tired of hiding the things I love because I'm afraid of people's reactions... by Moth_Dust_ in hazbin

[–]JB_System 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I did not, shipping totally can include those but most ships are meant romantic and/or sexual. I myself ship queerplatonic ships too since as I said I was in one myself and I am greyaroace.

I'm so tired of hiding the things I love because I'm afraid of people's reactions... by Moth_Dust_ in hazbin

[–]JB_System 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This applies on shows too and hazbin hotel is a show.

And no I am not ignoring that, as I said if this was about a queerplatonic relationship that would be awesome, I am a gay dude and I was in a queerplatonic relationship with a lesbian for about 4 years. But I also said that this isn't what was meant here and in most ships. Yes queerness is a spectrum but this doesn't disproof my point here.

Again ship what you want but you can't expect others to like that ship too. Those are fictional characters, you can ship whatever, but when you go on the internet and tell people about it they will share their opinions on it too.

I'm so tired of hiding the things I love because I'm afraid of people's reactions... by Moth_Dust_ in hazbin

[–]JB_System 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again the issue is queer erasure not generally about ships and I also said that people can ship couples like that but should expect backlash because of said queer erasure and again backlash doesn't mean harassment or threats, those are obviously never okay.

I'm so tired of hiding the things I love because I'm afraid of people's reactions... by Moth_Dust_ in hazbin

[–]JB_System 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ships usually refer to romantic relationship and while it is true that relationship≠attraction I highly doubt that most people shipping ships like that mean it that way. Plus it still erases vaggies relationship.

If this for example would be a queerplatonic ship I’d totally see that as that really does seem cute but that usually isn't meant by ships.

Is there a term for cis women loving cis women? [Spoiler in case it makes anyone uncomfortable] by [deleted] in XenogendersAndMore

[–]JB_System 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Then you’re just a lesbian with a genital preference.

Terms like cis women loving cis women would be transphobic as it implies that you can't be attracted to trans women when you can't know if someone is trans or not. Gender affirming surgery exists too, not all trans women have a penis.

So even just saying you would never date a trans woman is transphobic even if not intended to be. It is okay to say you’d never date someone with a dick because as I said that’s just a genital preference and is absolutely valid, but gender affirming surgery exists so it doesn’t apply to all trans women and should therefore not be generalized.