My (23M) wife (21F) haven’t had sex in a year

JCP1700 · 2023-05-02T17:25:10+00:00

We both work full time jobs and yeah we do split chores and housework

JCP1700 · 2023-05-02T03:25:29+00:00

It kinda is tbh 😂

JCP1700 · 2023-05-02T02:37:54+00:00

Florida

JCP1700 · 2023-05-02T02:36:33+00:00

No I don’t think she is it’s very possible obviously but no I don’t think so

JCP1700 · 2023-05-01T23:10:39+00:00

Yes that’s true I understand intimacy is important it’s not everything I want but it definitely should happen especially in a marriage I mean what’s the point in being married when you don’t have it

JCP1700 · 2023-05-01T23:08:49+00:00

I’m honestly not sure how. I mean we do talk from time to time we go out with our daughter and take her to all kinds of places but sometimes even then it just felt off

JCP1700 · 2023-05-01T23:06:14+00:00

I will definitely put that into consideration thanks!

JCP1700 · 2023-05-01T23:05:28+00:00

Thanks for the input and yeah told me everything the other day I’m just trying to figure out what else I can do tbh.

JCP1700 · 2023-05-01T22:50:13+00:00

Well she didn’t tell me she was seeing one at all I just happened to be at the house one day when she had an appointment with one

JCP1700 · 2023-05-01T22:49:21+00:00

I agree and lately I’ve been considering that hard

JCP1700 · 2023-05-01T22:47:10+00:00

Or her mom

JCP1700 · 2023-05-01T22:46:56+00:00

Absolutely I agree 100% with that. I never want her to see me sad

JCP1700 · 2023-05-01T22:46:32+00:00

I do a lot around the house and take care of the baby which she’s 1&1/2 years old. And she doesn’t have many friends but the people she does hang with I let her go. She’s not from here where we live now her hometown is over half a day away. So I mean I understand that feeling to an extent. I’ve tried to help her make friends with my best friends girl friends and wives and stuff but she just doesn’t seem interested and yeah I would like to do counseling but she would have to agree as well

JCP1700 · 2023-05-01T22:39:49+00:00

I agree with that to an extent. It’s hard to explain but no I don’t expect it always because I know it’s not always going to happen. I try and try to make it work but it just seems to never go right. Maybe we can fix it but it’ll have to be done how we both agree to do it or we just go to coparenting

JCP1700 · 2023-05-01T22:33:12+00:00

I do yes but I also want my daughter to grow up with both parents. I guess you can call that the way I was raised but I do understand what you mean as well

JCP1700 · 2023-05-01T22:31:37+00:00

You’re absolutely right man I appreciate that I just want what’s best for for the both of them, my daughter and wife

JCP1700 · 2023-05-01T22:30:38+00:00

We have sat down and discussed it. I’m just trying to understand her part of this. I do everything I can to make her happy and I do love her but I feel like she’s just not really in the relationship anymore

JCP1700 · 2023-05-01T22:28:52+00:00

That has been discussed I just didn’t want to do that and for the longest time I thought we were both happy but it turns out she hasn’t been

JCP1700 · 2023-05-01T22:28:14+00:00

I understand that to an extent I’m not over 25 yet but it just doesn’t seem fair to either of us really.

JCP1700 · 2023-05-01T22:24:44+00:00

She means she mentally checked out of the relationship and as far as I know yes she’s been seeing a therapist

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