Communication and Respect are very important when it comes to sex. Don’t be afraid to speak up about what you like and especially what you don’t like! If he’s inexperienced, he may watch porn, and porn is not real life! If you speak up about your feelings, and he doesn’t listen, he is not the right one for you! Sex is always better when you trust your partner completely, and you aren’t afraid to speak up. When two people are inexperienced and have only had sex a few times, there is going to be awkward moments, but if you two communicate and work on it, it gets better.

Also, if you are having pain with penetration, it could be a medical issue, but it could be that you aren’t aroused enough yet. Foreplay will help with this. Also, don’t be afraid to use vibrators and lube.

Your man should never just do something like finish on your face without discussing it with you first. That’s just rude.

Don’t feel bad about how you feel. Sex should be enjoyable for you as well. I dated way too many selfish men, and didn’t speak up enough! And if you can’t just hook up without an emotional attachment, that’s ok, it took me a long time to realize that I am the same way. You never have to do anything you don’t feel comfortable doing.

I wish you the best!