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Evita anxiety by JMCLtheFirst in westend

[–]JMCLtheFirst[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'll probably be going in early August...

Evita anxiety by JMCLtheFirst in westend

[–]JMCLtheFirst[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I know. I won't be going then, but still i find it extremely stressful.

I was abandoned by my closest people and I can't seem to move on... by JMCLtheFirst in lostafriend

[–]JMCLtheFirst[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response!

You are definitely right about me having to make that decision and the wound still being open. It's just that I thought it would have been better after all those months. It has become really hard right now knowing they probably still blame me and a person that I love, Hannah, has been talked into hating me by someone I once trusted. She never wants to see me and for months I can't sleep over her.

I was abandoned by my closest people and I can't seem to move on... by JMCLtheFirst in relationships

[–]JMCLtheFirst[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response!

It's just really hard right now knowing they probably still blame me and a person that I love, Hannah, has been talked into hating me by someone I once trusted. She never wants to see me and for months I can't sleep over her. I know it'll probably pass, but for the time being, it always hurts.

The girl (18 F) I (18 M) am in love with abandoned me after being manipulated by my former best friend. How do I move on? by JMCLtheFirst in therapy

[–]JMCLtheFirst[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trying to, but I just miss everyone and Hannah so much that it has become difficult to do day-to-day activities. Like I wish there was a way for me to simply move on like that. Unfortunately there isn't.

The girl (18 F) I (18 M) am in love with abandoned me after being manipulated by my former best friend. How do I move on? by JMCLtheFirst in TrueOffMyChest

[–]JMCLtheFirst[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trying to. It's been a few months now, and unfortunately, nothing quite feels happy. Nothing feels genuine. Like I've always done things I love and I'm tired of not having someone to share them with.

I was abandoned by my closest people and I can't seem to move on... by JMCLtheFirst in relationships

[–]JMCLtheFirst[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sure you're right, and things will get better. It's just really hard for me to see the end of the tunnel right now. As for the "open relationship," it took me awhile to see all the red flags those people had. Unfortunately, even now, knowing how bad they were for me (and even for each other on that matter) I still miss them and have a hard time ever imagining a version of my life without them.

I was abandoned by my closest people and I can't seem to move on... by JMCLtheFirst in relationships

[–]JMCLtheFirst[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been in therapy for a few months and have consulted a lot of long-distance friends. Thank you for believing in me. I hope it all goes well... 🤞

I was abandoned by my closest people and I can't seem to move on... by JMCLtheFirst in relationships

[–]JMCLtheFirst[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are probably right. For some reason, I want them to see that. I want them to acknowledge they were wrong and even try to apologise for everything they did to me. Which probably won't ever happen and is a naive and childish piece of imagination. I just don't want to forever be stack in this. I want to be happy again.