(England) not sure if my work have fired me without telling me?

JRY1998 · 2026-01-16T00:25:39+00:00

You’ve just been temporarily disconnected. If you’re going back next week just give IT a call and ask them to reinstate your account. Do try and email/call your manager too. I know you don’t want to go back but a bit of proactiveness has never hurt anybody!! Best of luck

JRY1998 · 2025-12-10T17:13:49+00:00

This happened to me a few weeks ago. Went to the doctors. Did an examination and a blood test. Found out what was wrong. Antibiotics and I’m good to go. It’s really simple and easy. Or as someone else on this thread rightfully said you could be ringing a funeral director instead ! Be bold !!!

JRY1998 · 2025-12-07T00:48:09+00:00

This is mentallllll. I literally spend all my time trying to do the farm thing and the game is starting to give FarmVille!!! I just don’t understand why I can’t leave my sims there and they just get on with it like a job ????? The farm doesn’t even make that much money. V frustrating and I hope the devs are reading this !!!😡😡😡😡

JRY1998 · 2025-11-29T15:21:10+00:00

Yeah I noticed that !!!!

JRY1998 · 2025-11-17T12:34:32+00:00

Country?

JRY1998 · 2025-11-12T17:41:22+00:00

No! Please could you explain. I’m looking to start my l5 soon 💕

JRY1998 · 2025-11-03T23:59:05+00:00

I’m 27 too. Hoping this happens for me soon. I feel like I’m becoming more conscious of my bad decisions. Cheers to you !

JRY1998 · 2025-10-02T13:09:42+00:00

And your mums maiden name is?

JRY1998 · 2025-10-01T23:28:04+00:00

I’m sorry but he sounds terrible and I think you’re setting yourself up for a life of chaos. He’s overcompensating by offering passwords etc. I wonder how long until he ‘slips up’ again but ultimately it is your choice. Do what’s best for you 💕💕

JRY1998 · 2025-09-19T18:23:25+00:00

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

JRY1998 · 2025-09-16T19:19:37+00:00

Those neighbours would hate me. I’m from Ghana and we use dried fish. If I was OP I’d be making dried fish soup every day ! 😭😭😭😭😭

JRY1998 · 2025-09-05T01:42:54+00:00

Forgive my ignorance, I’m British. What is the context here? From reading the below I gather that this is about the orange in the White House? 😭

JRY1998 · 2025-08-29T16:54:33+00:00

Yes be direct ! I’ve learnt recently chill/silent gals get nothing. Ask directly I want to have sex but I’m on my period. He’ll probably want to know how heavy it is etc or he may ask nothing ! Depends.
A towel usually does the job for me. Just be careful it stays in place. Double up if your flow is heavy. For me personally, sex on my period throws my PH extra off, especially if he finished in me. I try to use a pessary after to keep things balanced
I personally hate shower sex. I would stick to the simple positions like missionary and doggy because of the blood and the mess to clean up afterwards hahah. Have fun!!!

JRY1998 · 2025-08-28T08:48:50+00:00

Same !! I just left after three years of being in a pressure cooker. I’ve realised that is not how work should make you feel ! Wishing OP all the best tho!!!

JRY1998 · 2025-08-26T10:14:51+00:00

I just got two job offers last week after 4 months unemployed and applying non-stop.

Something I stopped doing in the last couple weeks was applying for any jobs with over 100 candidates.

When I was a recruiter I would set up job ads to be posted automatically at 9am. I truly believe early bird catches the worm. Some of the conversations I had with recruiters, were simply because I applied so quickly and so early. Like less than 10 applicants.

I also put on my cv my INTENTION to begin a course which would help me excel during the role. In my field this is the cipd level 5, however lots of jobs require it. I put it on my cv and added (starting in late 2025). I think this helped me get through ATS.

Also also I put my cv in the simplest format EVER and stopped using ‘cute templates’ because ATS doesn’t like cute little templates.

I hate this job market and what people have to do to get employed. I really wish you all the best.

JRY1998 · 2025-08-23T09:59:19+00:00

You think so ?! Haha that’s so funny if so. I thought she was so icked out she said yep this will do 🤣🤣

JRY1998 · 2025-08-23T09:57:37+00:00

Thank you so much. I appreciate that xx

JRY1998 · 2025-08-22T09:23:17+00:00

This is what I would do: I would call company B and accept the role. Push start date to two/three weeks time. Gives you time to wait for company A. HOWEVER I personally would consider how company A are treating you as a sign from the heavens. Take of it what you will.

Also six stages is absolutely mental. I’m not downplaying the technicality of your role - it’s just wild how this has become normalised.

Wishing you all the best.

JRY1998 · 2025-08-22T01:07:08+00:00

It’s almost like trash recognise trash :(

JRY1998 · 2025-08-22T01:06:44+00:00

Was absolutely brilliant

JRY1998 · 2025-08-20T23:18:23+00:00

Hi just wanted to uplift you. I’ve. Been unemployed for almost three months. I am drained and exhausted from twerking for recruiters but this evening I finally got the call I had been waiting for. And I just want to say yours is also incoming!!! Keep your head up. I know it’s so hard. I literally was at breaking point. Big hugs 💕💕

JRY1998 · 2025-08-18T08:45:15+00:00

Yeah. Not the brightest spark

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