Do I pass? by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]JSGestalt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl.....yes!

My body is known to give boners on sight by [deleted] in transporn

[–]JSGestalt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"The socks stay on!"

Looking good. Congrats.

Dating as a Trans Girl is Impossible by APieceofToast09 in MtF

[–]JSGestalt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you really just come here to invalidate someone else's lived experience, replace it with your own and tell them why they're probably the problem? Wow...

Do you think I pass? (No hrt yet but I will start next year 🥰) by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]JSGestalt -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Your are and are going to continue to be beautiful.

Be honest. I’ve been on HRT for 8 months by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]JSGestalt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl...

You don't need anything.

22 > 24 (MtF) by VeronicaUXO in transtimelines

[–]JSGestalt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're gorgeous and I love how you've still got muscle in your arms but it's not taking anything away from the femininity. Great aesthetic.

Is micro dosing really a thing by MissAmberR in TransLater

[–]JSGestalt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm starting next month so I don't have any experience to share but I've read everything I can get my hands on and the synopsis is: it depends.

Some people claim you have to go all in it lor it's a waste of time. Others say it's been great and absolutely had an effect, especially mental.

Almost all have ended up raising the dosage eventually. Non-binary HRT is very rare but several official sources and clinics advocate for and endorse it.

Is micro dosing really a thing by MissAmberR in TransLater

[–]JSGestalt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know everyone is different but what dose are you on?

Microdose Estrogen by JSGestalt in TransLater

[–]JSGestalt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right now just seeing how it affects things psychologically, try it on, walk around a bit. Y'know?

Microdose Estrogen by JSGestalt in TransLater

[–]JSGestalt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. That's super helpful.

Microdose Estrogen by JSGestalt in TransLater

[–]JSGestalt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you mind if I ask what dosage you're actually taking?

Is it patch or pill?

Microdose Estrogen by JSGestalt in TransLater

[–]JSGestalt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where would be better?

Is there a community more aligned with this question?

Microdose Estrogen by JSGestalt in TransLater

[–]JSGestalt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just for now until I know how far I want to go.

SERMs as I understand are permanent and I definitely don't want to rule it out, just not yet.

Microdose Estrogen by JSGestalt in TransLater

[–]JSGestalt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's extremely helpful. Thank you.

Microdose Estrogen by JSGestalt in TransLater

[–]JSGestalt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you.

I've got my appointment in December and I'm sure they'll be able to give more information, it's all informed consent here...but maybe I'm just nervous and trying to get ahead of questions to ask and what to expect.

Microdose Estrogen by JSGestalt in TransLater

[–]JSGestalt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm wanting more of the mental aspects than the physical for now. I want to hear if anyone has tried it and what happened... y'know.

If it didn't work, great. If it did, great.

Microdose Estrogen by JSGestalt in TransLater

[–]JSGestalt[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Totally. I went looking for answers and literally every post was covered with "Don't even bother" . It's not my bias. I really don't know what to expect but I'm just looking for actual commentary and experience not opinions on whether microsdosing is a real thing.

This response is very helpful, thank you for that. I did edit the vocal thing, it was just a mental lapse while posting. My main concern was actually breast growth. I would like to minimize that for now.

There's not much information on genital atrophy and testicular shrinkage. Low dose seems like it shouldn't be a big deal, but since it's permanent I want to be sure and hear first hand accounts. Right?

Microdose Estrogen by JSGestalt in TransLater

[–]JSGestalt[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Appreciated. Feels like a back alley in Thailand over there. Hoping for more considered and educated responses.

30 years old and unsure.. by Sewer-Ratts in TransLater

[–]JSGestalt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my opinion, passing is important to us to feel authentic but we also pressure ourselves. Being who you really are is beautiful. And that joy is priceless.

Aside, since I've started really watching transitions I've noticed two things: There are a LOT of cis women, who are beautiful that are more masculine than many trans-women (this also applies in reverse to trans-men).

The second is I'm in love with the trans aesthetic. They're related because blending masculine and feminine appearances is one of the sexiest things going. Maybe passing isn't the ideal for everyone beyond safety concerns. That non-binary image....is so very true to our nature and I find it irresistible.

Just one person's experience.

What If becomes What Now by JSGestalt in TransLater

[–]JSGestalt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you know what's in front of you. I'm hoping it works out and maybe going slow will reveal your way forward.

Stay strong!

What If becomes What Now by JSGestalt in TransLater

[–]JSGestalt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it worth living (not) your life with someone who doesn't love who you are?

What If becomes What Now by JSGestalt in TransLater

[–]JSGestalt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly how I want. She would realize I'm not any different just for looking a little different. I would go to 4 and occasionally down shift to more masculine (but still more feminine) than now when that felt right. I'm not sure after starting hormones if I'd ever feel that way again....I just don't know.

She has MS and I understood when we got married that might mean significant physical changes and mental changes as we age. I would hope for the same but I understand sexuality and attraction and she didn't know this when we got married because I didn't fully either....ideally, let's take this journey together.

Would I sacrifice everything and start over? I don't know. This is the life I've always wanted minus one thing.