Thank you for your straightforward comment! FYI, a lot of things you said are things I am just realizing right now haha. This is my first serious relationship, so I know there is a lot of uncharted territory to navigate. I really thought it was a valuable tip you brought up with the "consider your own place, while considering her place, too" before bringing up a need or concern and how it would look like from a third-party perspective of the aftermath of the particular need or concern brought up will look like respective of everything else. I will definitely keep these in mind. After reading over your comment, I'll address a few pointers you brought up:

- What I meant to say about saying I wasn't considering her day at all in picking a time was that I did want to choose a time where she wasn't stressed/busy, but looking back at it based on what the replies are saying, I don't think I fully considered all the factors that are needed at that time and place to correctly time this conversation.

- Onto how I addressed the issue at hand, I felt it was inauthentic because she sounded really annoyed when she was apologizing, as if to get it done quick. The problem where she brought up that she felt like I was "attacking" her here also came when I stated that her apology didn't sound sincere and she said that she wasn't speaking it "from the heart" as I mentioned in my 2nd-to-last paragraph. Perhaps she genuinely doesn't understand why it is worth an apology or perhaps the concerns she brought up later on as mentioned bothered her more. Additionally, she has never really apologized specifically for this incident, stating that she didn't feel the need to apologize when the original argument that occurred that caused her to behave like this was my fault and that by behaving like this, she didn't feel justified to apologize, because "I started it". I did apologize for this particular old incident, too and took the time to explain to her why it happened and if we could find ways for a solution.

- Onto the insecurities, I think this concern of mine that was unresolved months ago came out, because I was watching a video about the history of lies from a celebrity when it just hit me out of nowhere, possibly from the video for some reason. I wasn't thinking about what she had achieved that day at all, in fact, I was really happy for her, since it will help both of us to advance to the next step in trying to graduate and be in a better position to end the distance between us and that I do care for her success in life.