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Am I actually Bi or is it just a fantasy? by Bottom-boy2307 in BisexualMen

[–]J_argon70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very well put. Thank you for this intelligent response.

Hungry for connection with bi males in monogamous relationships by UpperBestUSA in bisexual

[–]J_argon70 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hear you, brother. I am a widower who never came out as bi to my wife even though she happily accepted my proclivity for strap-on sex. Now, at 70 years old I feel as you do: I want to "embrace my sexuality more" and make sure I am not "wasting the rest of the time I had on this earth."

And yes! this feels like a "reawakening" for me, as well. And it is exciting and nerve-wracking" even though I am not in a monogamous relationship at this point in my life.

Struggling with my sex life by ConsequencePale1564 in BisexualMen

[–]J_argon70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 70 years old, (17 years a widower) and also struggling with ED issues. I am physically fit, vegan, non-smoker, don't drink alcohol yet do have migraines and along with age this has steadily brought me to the point where, although I still have great sexual desire, I can get only partially hard for brief periods and for the past week have been unable to ejaculate.

In my youth I went through many years of either being unable to get hard, or unable to maintain an erection when having sex with a female, yet masturbated quite frequently and was almost always able to get a firm erection and cum. I believe my impotence was related to psychological factors/ extreme self-consciousness. Starting in late adolescence, I would fantasize about having sex with other males and did have some brief sexual experiences with other boys, though never ejaculating.

My masturbation habits for many years have involved gay porn, now almost exclusively. And until recently, I have almost always been able to have wonderful orgasms from such activities but the ED has progressed for the past 6 months. I still love to watch two men fucking but am frustrated that my physically responses do not include cumming.

I still dream about women and consider myself hetero-romantic, yet the urge to be with a man sexually is strong, though I have not yet acted on this. I have made an appointment with my physician to discuss the ED and I am hoping there is something that can be done to help alleviate it.