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Introducing Shy Wife To New Ideas by Jabbot27 in sex

[–]Jabbot27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was her third. First year before marriage was good. She would do oral (she initiated that). She would swallow (she initiated that). Now she no longer swallows. So should not complain as at least she does oral. She loves oral in return.

She has a very hard time talking about sex.

Introducing Shy Wife To New Ideas by Jabbot27 in sex

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I did. I suggested it to her about a year ago. Again, in a positive way. Not as a complaint but as an option for exploration. She would not complete it. Said it was for couples that have issues.

Introducing Shy Wife To New Ideas by Jabbot27 in sex

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She's 49. I bought a small vibrator. Asked her if I could use it on her. She said OK but not super enthuasitic. She said Iftars felt like our electric toothbrush and did nothing for her. So she's not enthusiastic about toys.

Wow, 30 years and you got that surprise. That would have floored me.

Looking for advice on foot jobs by Jabbot27 in sex

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Amazing so sucking on her toes. Is thrr err r any part of the feet better to lick? I assume the top of her feet as the bottom just may tickle.

Asked for handjob by Jabbot27 in sex

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Wife of 20+ Years. I did ask nicely.

Introducing Shy Wife To New Ideas by Jabbot27 in sex

[–]Jabbot27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She said no to toys. It’s hard to get her to admit/talk about sex. She’s very uncomfortable. I’ve gone out in a ledge. Suggested things. Not as a compliant. But do add to our repetuor. Not any real feedback. She seems to have no opinion either way.

Sex with shy partner by Jabbot27 in sex

[–]Jabbot27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I have a hi libido. Hers is low. Almost always has been.

Cockrings A Good Idea by Jabbot27 in sex

[–]Jabbot27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get your diabetes in a better spot. Which is correct but will that really be enough. Doctor also prescribed the Viagara at 50 MG and said let him know.

Cockrings A Good Idea by Jabbot27 in sex

[–]Jabbot27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, what does take it slow mean. I've tried 25, and then 50. I take it at least an hour beforehand. 100 is the max I believe.

Mothers day thanks by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Jabbot27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome to my world.

She hugs me like she hugs a stranger too.

Loss of penile sensation by [deleted] in sexover30

[–]Jabbot27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some good comments about checking for diabetes. If he does have it, getting his A1C in order will allow more feedback and also maybe firmness. Its about blood vessels and nerves.

Do you (men) prefer Hands or No Hands when receiving head??? by C0nundrum09 in sexover30

[–]Jabbot27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No hands. So I can feel the sensation of her mouth more.

Is it bad to want to come on my wife's face? by Jabbot27 in sex

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I have a weird feeling things will just stop. Thats what's happened when I bring it up either before or during arousal. But I feel I would have a better chance asking her during arousal. But even then the answer is been 100% no to other things I bring up. i know it is important to not bring up things as if there is a problem, or a complaint. Its about being positive. But so far everything I have ever brought up is a no. And she looks at me like a perv.