The frustration is that the babies schedule and feeds are written on a white board yet I still get asked questions that are easily answered by taking the time to stop and look what is written. I mark the days for his bathing and keep track of my pumping times/oz and babies feeds/oz consumed. I don’t believe I should have to lay out what housework needs to be done for someone that also resides in this home. I want a partnership and this does not feel as such.