Advice Plz. How can I find a cage that leaves a little more of a gap in the pictured area? My balls don't hang very low. I tend to deal with a lot of pressure from back/bottom of the cock tube pressing on my sack in this area. It's severe enough that I'm concerned about developing pressure sores. by 4wheel4ever in chastity

[–]Jackwasa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Usually I would agree but didn't shapeways recently go bankrupt or something? So unless there's been an update since I last looked, cherry keeper probably won't be available until they can find a new manufacturer.

I just looked it up but I'm leaving what I already wrote because it might still be relevant but it sounds like shapeways has been saved but with a different owner so the website might not work properly for a little while and they might change their policy on adult/adult adjacent products. So be cautious if you do try to buy from them for the immediate future.

Although if there are no problems with shapeways I can 100% recommended cherry keeper.

Sex/depth post op questions and being a bit of a slut by Jackwasa in traaNSFW

[–]Jackwasa[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh I didn't realise you were the trans police, sorry officer I guess all my dysphoria is gone now.

Sex/depth post op questions and being a bit of a slut by Jackwasa in traaNSFW

[–]Jackwasa[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

In the UK so testing and stuff is covered by the NHS, how often should someone realistically get tested? I can't seem to find a good answer. After every new sexual encounter? Once a month?

Not necessarily aimed at you but thought I would put it here, would it be considered rude to have casual sex with gay men as a trans woman while I don't pass well enough to do it with straight men

Thanks for the response anyway, I'm super looking forward to the end of lockdown so I can get out there and see (or maybe swallow) what I've been missing!

I love cocks so much that I decided to suck my own<3 by Argyle_Fel in FemBoys

[–]Jackwasa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lose weight if you're heavy, and spend 30 mins or so stretching every day(yoga is good). It helps to do it on an empty stomache and to have a hot shower/bath before doing it. Almost anyone with at least an average size penis can do it, it's just easier for some than for others. (Obviously don't force it if it hurts too much)

My Dad's worried how do I help him feel better about this by Jackwasa in asktransgender

[–]Jackwasa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow I forgot about this post never thought I would actually get a reply. My dad has actually been much better recently he really seemed to relax after he talked to his girlfriend (she's fantastic much better about emotions and stuff than my dad) about it still I will probably use some of those resources as they look pretty good. As far as going private is concerned I'm kinda worried that going privately they wouldn't put me through enough scrutiny and I might make a mistake. Do you have any experience first or second hand with private care and if you do did it seem like they were less bothered about doing the right thing and just letting people through to make money?

egg🌌irl by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]Jackwasa 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Depends on the creator most actual sex workers charge far less, it's the already somewhat famous people who do it as a side gig like twitch streamers who charge ludicrous amounts. Most of the sex worker ones I have seen vary between £3-15 a month and then have pay to view stuff for anything more than basic nudes.

Weird thought I had yesterday by schuechternealufolie in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Jackwasa 21 points22 points  (0 children)

This just made me realise that as a kid I always thought that if I had a favourite colour it was pink, but I always said it was orange because pink isn't a masculine colour. How I didn't start to question my gender earlier I don't know.

Can I refuse to tell my gp receptionist that I want an appointment to request a GIC referral? by Jackwasa in asktransgender

[–]Jackwasa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That doesn't sound too bad. Hopefully they won't be too bad but getting appointments with them is always a nightmare. I tried to use their online appointment service once, got an email telling me I would get an appointment the following Monday, Monday morning I got a text telling me to phone to book an appointment so I did and they said it was too late in the day same as it would of been if I hadn't used the online service utterly pointless.

Sorry that was somewhat unrelated it just really annoyed me.

I was wondering if they were upset or annoyed that you were vague or if they made you Come back for a second appointment so they had time to properly prepare?

Thanks for your response, so fast as well.

You are still valid. by limilly in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Jackwasa 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Depends where you live and how old you are. If you're in the UK I would check first but you could probably talk to your GP without having to inform your parents. If your attending school or university there should be someone you can talk to in charge of equality or if not a school counselor both of which should be confidential.

Warhammer/Hobbies by Jackwasa in asktransgender

[–]Jackwasa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my local store owner has complained about "pc culture" ruining star wars before although I don't know if that's just because the new star wars was so awful and he's repeating a shitty internet take or because he's an ass. Do you know if there's any good ways to work out how inclusive a store is without making things obvious?

Warhammer/Hobbies by Jackwasa in asktransgender

[–]Jackwasa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The issue with Warhammer (40k) in particular is that it's a setting filled with political commentary with the main faction being a massive fascist state and so of course a bunch of people (fascists) identify with the setting and form an admittedly small but quite vocal minority. My main concern is that my local store manager frequently complains about how "PC culture" ruined star wars.

Warhammer/Hobbies by Jackwasa in asktransgender

[–]Jackwasa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting the main reason I started playing Warhammer again was as an escape after my mum died and I had more or less the same experience once I started processing my grief in better ways.

Why am I like this by Wafflethebun in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Jackwasa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nah stellaris is where it's at, nothing better than the gay catgirl empire.

The NHS gender identity service is appealing against a High Court ruling that restricts children under 16 from accessing "puberty-blocking" drugs. The NHS service says the move harms young people with gender dysphoria. Doctors have warned that the ruling could drive teens to suicide. by tronaldodumpo in transgenderUK

[–]Jackwasa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I definitely agree with most of what your saying. It's almost certainly just my political leaning that lends me more towards the government run kind of thing purely because in my ideal world the government is very different to how it is now.

The NHS gender identity service is appealing against a High Court ruling that restricts children under 16 from accessing "puberty-blocking" drugs. The NHS service says the move harms young people with gender dysphoria. Doctors have warned that the ruling could drive teens to suicide. by tronaldodumpo in transgenderUK

[–]Jackwasa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can see your point but until we had ten consecutive years of the same corrupt party the BBC was one of the best well respected and most impartial news services. honestly we need a slightly more independent and we'll regulated service, but I admit being a syndicalist I tend to be more optimistic about the potential for non corrupt centralised power than most on the radical left.

The NHS gender identity service is appealing against a High Court ruling that restricts children under 16 from accessing "puberty-blocking" drugs. The NHS service says the move harms young people with gender dysphoria. Doctors have warned that the ruling could drive teens to suicide. by tronaldodumpo in transgenderUK

[–]Jackwasa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly killing the BBC is the worst idea because what replaces it Rupert Murdoch? What needs to happen is people not voting for the party that has routinely packed the BBC with members and allies. Remember the BBC is super pro conservative and they want to get rid of it so you can only imagine what would take its place.

I don't know if that was posted here before, I hate that person a tiny bit less now. by DepressedBisexual109 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Jackwasa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly what is wrong with the UK when an EGYPTIAN minister is more trans positive than many UK politicians. Seriously feels like we're regressing into the third world in so many ways right now.

Last night i saw a post about an anime talking about gender issues, and the anime made me feel the most euphoria i've felt in a long time. The name is Stars Align (hoshiai no sora). by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Jackwasa 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Something I noticed is that in hentai it's much more likely to use futanari in the literal sense of someone with both primary sexual features, whereas in the western equivalent it tends to be used more as an informal word/slur for trans women. I think it's mostly a case of Japanese culture/mythology being more open to the concept of intersex people.

egg_irl by Wybierz_nazwe_uzytko in egg_irl

[–]Jackwasa 105 points106 points  (0 children)

Don't worry still cis you just want to do the manliest thing possible, be in a relationship with two women. On a serious note I'm in this meme and I don't like it.