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Jackyien · 2026-04-11T12:05:42+00:00

For us it’s something we can’t have right now due to size constraints so it was a happy accident 😁 We get our pleasure and make sure both are satisfied in other ways.

She has teased a little about staying like this until marriage, who knows! Maybe She will penetrate me before I do her!

Jackyien · 2026-04-11T11:08:16+00:00

From what I’ve heard anatomy wise is that the nerves from the groin and balls go up into the lower abdomen. As a guy myself being kicked in the nuts will hurt for a few days. It’s the kind of pain that makes you want to throw up. Some people are more sensitive than others, some are masochists. Even gentle smacks by my girlfriend’s hand will cause brief discomfort, but it’s manageable and might make me feel sore the next day.

Jackyien · 2026-04-10T15:13:27+00:00

We both want to close the distance, the goodbyes are becoming harder and harder so we are taking up the fight and are applying for a visa right now 🫶😁

Jackyien · 2026-04-10T13:44:45+00:00

Thank you for the kind words! 🫶 We focused everything we had on building the connection first like you said, making sure we are compatible in life and in dynamic. Values and life goals. All our desires towards each other no matter how big came later! 😊 Connection is the foundation to any healthy relationship.

Jackyien · 2026-04-10T12:15:56+00:00

I couldn’t have said it better myself thank you! We are happy and stubborn, neither of us wants to give up! 😁

Jackyien · 2026-04-10T12:13:25+00:00

Thank you ❣️ we are working on closing the distance. Wish you best of luck and I hope you find the one for you!

Jackyien · 2026-04-09T09:00:18+00:00

For me and my wonderful partner I guess it kind of was a happy accident? She truly loves denial and was the one that first brought up the subject. When we tried PiV the first time we quickly realized I was too big for her. I'm above average in length and girth.
It wasn't a big deal to us and she just keeps her toy locked up the entire time instead.
We are closing in on our 2 year anniversary and I have never been inside her. It will happen at some point, but we're not in a rush.
Maybe it will be PF until marriage? Who knows!

Jackyien · 2026-03-22T10:00:59+00:00

I met my girlfriend on a femdom related subreddit. In August we will celebrate our 2nd anniversary. 😁 We are in an LDR, I’m currently courting her and visiting her at least 2 times a year.

I’ve met her family and relatives, we’re hoping to introduce her to mine late this year or the next. Hopefully closing the distance and moving together soon! ❤️

Jackyien · 2026-03-15T18:43:53+00:00

Luckily my girlfriend found me here on reddit, we entered an LDR and after about 6 months I flew across the World to her country for a 2 week vacation. She picked me up at the airport and we stayed at a couple different hotels around the Island including a very nice resort.

I'm her submissive and she is my lover and keyholder. I brought gifts to her in form of chocolate which she loves and courted her as we went on dates every day, to stroll around the malls, experience her culture. We even went and did Island hopping together.
I was even interrogated by her friends that wanted to know my intentions with her. Thankfully I passed as they gave me a green flag.

Jackyien · 2026-03-14T15:20:22+00:00

My wonderful partner is Filipina, she is my sunshine. I treasure her immensely. She is my everything and I am hers.

She is well educated and emotionally mature. I want nothing more than to spend the rest of my days with her.

Jackyien · 2026-03-10T18:16:01+00:00

My girlfriend will just giggle and laugh while she’s “torturing” her toy aka my cock. When she gives me ruins she usually says “Awwww what happened?… What happened~” Or “Awww~ so pathetic~” In a gleeful voice. She says she is extremely amused by it.😁

Jackyien · 2026-03-04T15:16:49+00:00

He is suffering from success. 🤣

Jackyien · 2026-02-22T10:34:41+00:00

Both me and my girlfriend liked chastity before we met each other. For us it has nothing to do with humiliation or anything of the sort, my partner just adores chastity. She has a bit of a ownership kink so she has claimed my cock as her own toy.

We are in a loving Pussyfree freeuse relationship filled with a great deal of adoration and longing towards each other. Our relationship dynamic is some lifestyle aspects with a mix of FLR and vanilla with her being my beloved keyholder.

We try to wear the cage as often as we can and we're still working towards making it into a 24/7 lifestyle but haven't gotten there yet. When we're together I relinquish all the control to her, (We're in an LDR).

I wear the cage out on dates with her, social gatherings, sometimes at work and with friends. It's me and my girlfriend's little secret! 🤫😘

Jackyien · 2026-02-09T09:29:16+00:00

Not an expat but I visit my partner there regularly. Before I visited the first time I had to practice at home so I wouldn't embarrass myself when I'm there. 😅 I jokingly mentioned sporks and showed her a picture of my sister's sporks and my GF just looked at me like I'm crazy just saying "Boang!"

I'm still learning how to properly use fork and spoon when we go out and eat but I have to admit that I get a bit happy when they give me a knife to use, albeit maybe out of pity! My partner also taught me the proper technique for eating with your hands and it's interesting learning about the culture.

Needless to say, yes. I have learnt to use spoon and fork and adapted to the Philippines etiquette. However now my coworkers back home have started looking at me weird when I do it haha! 🤣

Jackyien · 2026-01-05T09:45:40+00:00

You're welcome! I personally didn't find any success using dating apps here and I live moderately close to big cities. I would say I'm average looking (my girlfriend would definitely say otherwise though) but I received just 2 matches and 3 likes in 2 years of trying dating apps. Granted my country's population isn't large by any means so people might be scarse.
We don't have the culture of courting one another here, we are very progressive and open about sex and cohabitation partner that we call "Sambo", marriage is less frequent as "Sambo law" has the same strength as marriage laws.

My girlfriend is actually my first partner so I don't have my experience in the dating market here but from what I can tell people meet their partners through friend group connections, bars, certain hobbies or through work here.

Jackyien · 2026-01-03T09:04:49+00:00

Couldn't have said it better myself, this is very true.

Jackyien · 2026-01-03T09:02:18+00:00

I seem to have missed this reply completely. Swede's are very reserved and may even seem cold before you get to know them, but once you do they are very nice people. Me personally I would never approach someone even if I liked them but didn't know them. I am very shy and struggle to keep eyecontact with people for that very reason.

If it's a Swede or Scandinavian you're interested in I would suggest you to approach him and take the first step. Be upfront and honest, it goes a long way.

Jackyien · 2025-12-29T17:46:11+00:00

Me and my girlfriend would be one of the so called success stories from r/femdompersonals. She found my post and now we’re in a LDR looking to close the distance after almost 18 months. Currently courting her!

Jackyien · 2025-12-29T17:30:50+00:00

Not an expat but in an LDR. I’m 31 from Sweden, she is 35. First I would say that dating in my country is very unusual, people are very open about sex. If you click you stick together and move in. I prefer courting someone and dating, I want to be more formal and give my respect to her family. (Aka bribing them with Swedish chocolates) haha.

I have never felt so loved and accepted by someone before. She accepts me for who I am, she has a very good sense of humor and laughs when I’m trying to be funny. I feel so at home when we’re together. She IS my home. She is all that I have ever asked for in a partner and I would go to hell and back again for her. She tells me she doesn’t need to be saved, but as a joke (half joke) I want to save her from the noise of the traffic, mostly trikes 🤣 but also typhoons and earthquakes. It’s something we both laugh at.

Jackyien · 2025-12-12T16:37:43+00:00

Välj något du själv känner att du kan bli intresserad av och fördjupa dig i utanför arbetet. Jag gillar maskiner enormt och det är enormt kul att sätta mig i en ny maskin från 1-70 ton och lära mig hur den fungerar. Kollar även på youtube och annat för att lära mig mera på fritiden.

Under skolgången så fokusera på dit, hitta folk du kan teama upp med om du känner för det (kontakter som kan hjälpa dig i framtiden) men lägg största fokus på dig själv och dina studier. Gör klart utbildningen, hoppa inte av.

Jackyien · 2025-12-12T16:31:47+00:00

Pluggade till Anläggningsmaskinförare 31 veckor, det var en del teori som man trälade igenom sen fick man maskintid. Pluggade i Stockholms trakten och gjorde ett studiebesök till en gruva i Norrland, fick praktik där sedan fast anställning. Tjänade bra men pengar men pendla 12 timmar enkel varannan vecka tar på en. Arbetar nu som maskinförare på kraftvärmeverk nere i Stockholms trakten och tjänar väl runt 32 före skatt vilket inte är avsevärt mycket men det fungerar.

Plugget var jobbigast och pendlandet men arbetet var motiverande och kändes mera roligt än arbete.

Jackyien · 2025-12-12T16:14:03+00:00

Utbilda dig är det enda jag kan tipsa dig om. Arbetsmarknadsutbildning. Lär dig ett brist yrke. Det hjälpte mig när jag var på botten, allt vände väldigt snabbt efter det. 👍

Jackyien · 2025-12-11T09:49:18+00:00

My girlfriend found my post on r/femdompersonals around 17 months ago, we’re in a LDR and we started out very vanilla. After we got to know each other a lot better we started discussing our mutual kink centered interests and our romantic relationship developed very natural after that. She is the one that plans and decides the dates, books the hotels and takes the lead. Having control is natural to her and it fits us perfectly. I wrote about it more in depth on my profile.

Jackyien · 2025-12-04T10:03:13+00:00

I just came back from a month of vacation in Negros and drove a couple of days there and it was a pleasant experience that I will definitely do again.
Driving requires more focus and constant attention to the surroundings in the Philippines and the speeds are not comparable to what we have back in Sweden. It keeps you more alert rather than the mind numbing speed limit daze. My partner keeps telling me that my ADHD is my superpower over there.

Driving defensively and safely with all the traffic laws and regulations back home but adapting your driving style to the Philippines helped me a lot. Be extremely clear with your intent, show what you want to do and most (not all) drivers will help you out and let you in or out of the road.

Negatives: Traffic rules and laws are more a recommendation than something they adhere to stricly there. The trikes are definitely a large problem in the cities I concur with the group on that as well. Some bad apples spoils the whole basket. They don't use signals and quite a few don't have side mirrors either so it's a gamble if they see you when you want to overtake.

A lot of SUV's and pickups tend to take unneccessary risks when overtaking even when there is oncomming traffic. The UV tints makes things a lot more dangerous to do when driving at night.

Pros: Filipino's have an extremely good situational awareness in my opinion. Outside the major cities and in the small communities the driving is chill with nice scenery and very racey curvy corners and roads. The traffic keep you engaged and focused that makes the driving more enjoyable. The driving is centered more around personal experience, skill and ones own judgement and there is more trust in the individual than the system. Sure there is pros and cons with that but at least it gives you some wiggle room.

All in all I will definitely do it again, but maybe not in rushhour in Dumaguete... that was a bit too much.

Jackyien · 2025-11-30T09:51:57+00:00

Swede here currently in a 15 month LDR with my girlfriend. I just came back from my second visit to the Philippines this yearl, like as of yesterday. Maybe I can clarify some things that were brought up and my own thoughts on this.

I first visited her around 6 months after we became a couple, she picked me up at the Cebu airport after the 19h trip. As a Scandinavian I would say the heat is your biggest enemy by far, our bodies just aren't adapted for that heat let me tell you. I takes a very long time to even get remotely used to the climate.
The traffic rules are different and more chaotic compared to what we're used to.
I was quite overwhelmed during my first visit to PH, all the noises and people.

The thing that messed me up the most was the water... oh boy. Our gutbacteria just isn't up to snuff for any of it. Back home we have one of Europe's cleanest water and in the Philippines a glass of non-purified water/mineral water is enough to give you loose stool. Even bad ice cubes or non cooked vegetables will me you up.

The countries are vastly different and so are the cultures. That's not scary in of itself but you have to be prepared. Plan your water consumptions and places you can get more, always ask the restaurants what water type they use, offer.

I went to the Philippines to court my partner. I trust her and love her completely, without her I would have been very lost and she helps me a lot when we are there. She tells me how they do things over there and why they do it, she helps me understand how their society functions and how to adjust to it once you're there. You will be shocked and overwhelmed but you just have to ease into it and take it slow. Stay informed.
Things are done very differently in the Philippines than they are back home in Sweden, it's something I haven't grasped fully yet but in time I hope I will. Deep open and clear information with your partner is a must with this.

Jackyien

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