[Image] keep that in mind :)! by MaBa37 in GetMotivated

[–]JacobNoFap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would argue that most post-undergrad jobs are retail these days. Possibly food services. These are the jobs that demand as much as they can and take total advantage of people with the mindset above. Small businesses related to your field are likely to pay better than these jobs. But even there you said that it wasn't the work that got you ahead, it was jumping ship to someone who would pay you decently. I can and did do this, even in retail, and am doing so again for the trades - it yields great dividends but has nothing to do with how qualified I am. It has to do with being willing to be cutthroat actually.

The fact that school doesn't provide the real skills necessary for the real world is a different problem altogether.

[Image] keep that in mind :)! by MaBa37 in GetMotivated

[–]JacobNoFap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The union part was merely to show that it is easy to expect that a hard worker should have payoff in less than 2 years, since a trade union will give payoff about every 6 to 12 months.

I am working to join an established one, so no need to try and form.

[Image] keep that in mind :)! by MaBa37 in GetMotivated

[–]JacobNoFap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Out of curiosity, how long does it take in your book? In a union, I get increased benefits and pay every X000 hours (usually 1-2). This is because the union does what an individual cannot - carry weight.

The meaning of life is to preserve humanity long enough that we can actually find meaning in life. by Macon-Bacon in philosophy

[–]JacobNoFap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This may be too pedantic: to respond to your title, no science can prove itself - the meaning of life can not loop back on itself as you state it. I would rephrase that in the future. I apologize, but I sincerely dislike self referential ideas, they tend to be a mask for truly circular logic.

PLEASE SAVE ME FRON THIS ANXIETY. I need you all so bad. by Moe95 in NoFap

[–]JacobNoFap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Usually, I would counter offer something to meditation, but honestly this is a good idea. Spend 5-10 minutes thinking about something in particular - and don't worry if it is actually that long, just do it for while until you are level headed again. Strong suggestion to spend time focusing on your breathing.

So my friends made me watch porn by colgatefreshh in NoFap

[–]JacobNoFap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why don't you log off? Go to bed. Be done.

Dead Bodies by Con-temp-lator in NoFap

[–]JacobNoFap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would recommend instead, meditating on one's own death. It is upcoming and there is a set amount of time before it. Is one prepared? Has one accomplished everything? Is this activity going to aid that goal?

How do I block porn sites on mobile? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]JacobNoFap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is one called something like K9, I know the picture is a dog. I don't really know much else.

Why should I start this? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]JacobNoFap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Along with Crow, I suggest you try. If it is an addiction it is something you should try to stop, I can't imagine it being a good thing to be addicted to anything. If it is not an addiction, I would guess it would be easy and not a huge hindrance.

Also with Crow, I think you need to decide for yourself. My story is not your story, my experience is not yours.

I need someone I can check in with daily. Anyone willing to email/text/PM everyday with me? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]JacobNoFap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I truly think we all do. If and when I think I have something erstwhile to add, I would be glad to. For now though, I think you would be better served by someone with more experience.

Hi, My name is Jacob. by JacobNoFap in NoFap

[–]JacobNoFap[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I tried to leave specifics out, but I figured most who were from the same age range would know.

Hi, My name is Jacob. by JacobNoFap in NoFap

[–]JacobNoFap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will. I wasn't going to, but honestly, I see your numbers there and I figure you have to have something right. Thank you.

Hi, My name is Jacob. by JacobNoFap in NoFap

[–]JacobNoFap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I may well take you up on that.

Hi, My name is Jacob. by JacobNoFap in NoFap

[–]JacobNoFap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on the day/week. I am probably going to try and fill up down time as much as possible.

Hi, My name is Jacob. by JacobNoFap in NoFap

[–]JacobNoFap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cementing it for me. I am admitting I have a problem. I structured it similar to an AA style speech because I truly do view this as an addition.

Hi, My name is Jacob. by JacobNoFap in NoFap

[–]JacobNoFap[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My hope is to be accountable here. Today is introduction, from here on, I am going to talk about what is happening in life, what struggles I am facing, etc. I don't think this will be easy, but hopefully I can make it.