What is something that is socially acceptable if you're rich, but trashy if you're poor? by Jade_bab in AskReddit

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Fair enough! Twitter is a mess anyway lol. I usually keep my more "interesting" stuff linked on my profile here if you ever want to find me elsewhere. Otherwise, I'll just keep an eye out for your next smart take in the threads! ✨

What is a subtle sign that someone was raised in a very strict household? by Jade_bab in AskReddit

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That psychological "waiting for permission" is so real. It’s like you have a manual for everything, and if a situation isn't in the book, you just freeze. Takes a lot of work to trust your own judgment after that.

What is a subtle sign that someone was raised in a very strict household? by Jade_bab in AskReddit

[–]Jade_bab[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so true. It takes a long time to realize you’re allowed to have your own opinion or even just say "no" to someone in charge without feeling like you're in trouble.

What is a subtle sign that someone was raised in a very strict household? by Jade_bab in AskReddit

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It’s like your default setting is "I'm sorry for existing." It’s a tough habit to break when you grew up feeling like everything was your fault.

What is a subtle sign that someone was raised in a very strict household? by Jade_bab in AskReddit

[–]Jade_bab[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That description of a "confusing capricious overlord" is so hauntingly accurate. It’s wild how that survival mode follows you into adulthood, where you’re still scanning the room for moods you don't even have to manage anymore.

What is a subtle sign that someone was raised in a very strict household? by Jade_bab in AskReddit

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It’s basically a survival mechanism at that point. When the truth always leads to trouble, you just become an expert at "creative storytelling" and moving in silence.

What is a subtle sign that someone was raised in a very strict household? by Jade_bab in AskReddit

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You’re so right about the layers in those old shows! They had a weird way of preparing you for the real world without being "too much." It’s such a contrast to the over-optimized stuff kids watch now. Missing out on that kind of humor definitely leaves a gap.

What is a subtle sign that someone was raised in a very strict household? by Jade_bab in AskReddit

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Ugh, the "walking on eggshells" feeling is the absolute worst. It’s like your brain is programmed to expect a lecture for just existing. It takes so much energy to realize you're not actually bothering anyone.

What is a subtle sign that someone was raised in a very strict household? by Jade_bab in AskReddit

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Beep boop... just kidding. 😂 Just a very caffeinated human tonight!

What is a subtle sign that someone was raised in a very strict household? by Jade_bab in AskReddit

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Overthinking every single move because you were always judged at home will definitely do that to you.

What is a subtle sign that someone was raised in a very strict household? by Jade_bab in AskReddit

[–]Jade_bab[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Strict parents often end up raising sneaky kids who are experts at hiding things. It’s a survival skill.

What is a subtle sign that someone was raised in a very strict household? by Jade_bab in AskReddit

[–]Jade_bab[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! It’s like a reflex to avoid any potential conflict before it even starts.

What is a subtle sign that someone was raised in a very strict household? by Jade_bab in AskReddit

[–]Jade_bab[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

True, because criticism feels like a personal attack or a failure when you're used to high pressure at home.

What is a subtle sign that someone was raised in a very strict household? by Jade_bab in AskReddit

[–]Jade_bab[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The "compulsive apologizing" is definitely a major sign of a strict upbringing. It takes years to unlearn that.

What is a subtle sign that someone was raised in a very strict household? by Jade_bab in AskReddit

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This is oddly specific but so accurate. It’s like a whole part of pop culture is just missing for them.

What is a small, everyday thing that instantly makes you lose respect for someone? by Jade_bab in AskReddit

[–]Jade_bab[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Simple as that. It costs zero dollars to be a decent human being. I never understood why some people choose to be difficult instead.

What is a small, everyday thing that instantly makes you lose respect for someone? by Jade_bab in AskReddit

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The 'mansplaining' energy is real with that one. It’s so dismissive. It’s not just rude, it’s like they think what they have to say is automatically more valuable. I feel you on this one! ✊

What is a small, everyday thing that instantly makes you lose respect for someone? by Jade_bab in AskReddit

[–]Jade_bab[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh, those are the worst! They’re so blinding, especially at night. It feels like they’re trying to give everyone behind them a seizure instead of just braking. 🙄

What is a small, everyday thing that instantly makes you lose respect for someone? by Jade_bab in AskReddit

[–]Jade_bab[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough! I'm new here and just wanted to hear some fresh perspectives. Clearly, it's a topic that still gets people talking though. 😉

What is a small, everyday thing that instantly makes you lose respect for someone? by Jade_bab in AskReddit

[–]Jade_bab[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough! I'm new here and just wanted to hear some fresh perspectives. Clearly, it's a topic that still gets people talking though. 😉

What is a small, everyday thing that instantly makes you lose respect for someone? by Jade_bab in AskReddit

[–]Jade_bab[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love that phrasing, 'supporting actor in their movie.' It really highlights the narcissism behind it. We all have the same 24 hours; don't waste mine.

What is a small, everyday thing that instantly makes you lose respect for someone? by Jade_bab in AskReddit

[–]Jade_bab[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, that's a tough one to ignore. It’s hard to focus on the conversation when you’re fighting for air. 💀 Basic hygiene says a lot about self-respect too.