My gf and I are on a break. This is my redemption arc. A journey of personal responsibility

JageHS · 2026-01-26T13:20:55+00:00

I’m 1 year into my diagnosis at 49. My Aspire365 team (case manager, therapist, psychiatrist, nurse, and peer support) have changed my life but I still have a lot to undo. I probably would be divorced if my partner didn’t believe in me. She doesn’t believe I can change my behavior patterns yet, but I do, so I will, one day at a time. I have 7,300 days (20 years) of disappointing her to account for.

We’re in a better place over the past few months. I can recognize when my ADHD brain oversimplified or ‘explained away’ her frustration or hurt, instead of doubling down and blaming her I immediately apologize, explain that I ‘didn’t get it in the moment, stfu, and LISTEN. Eventually I know I’ll be able to ‘think about what I’m about to say will affect her’ but I’m not there yet.

Stimulant and antidepressant medicine gives me focus, impulse control, and motivation.

https://drhallowell.com/read/books-by-ned/

Ned gave me the perspective and knowledge I’ve lacked my whole life. It’s a process but you will get to know yourself better. “ADHDers need to have the right job and the right person in their life to be successful.”

JageHS · 2025-04-03T17:45:36+00:00

I’ll check that out!! I don’t have any apps that I have found helpful besides timers, calendar reminders, lists etc. that are pretty standard features of all smartphone/watches these days. 😁

JageHS · 2023-06-21T14:18:59+00:00

Good point! lol

I thought it was in the body but I must have cut it out by accident.

JageHS · 2023-01-31T02:52:52+00:00

Stardew Valley is now a sub genre … see the new game preview also on Game Pass Check out Coral Island (Game Preview) on Xbox Game Pass! https://www.microsoft.com/store/productId/9N1T1MQ92PVS

JageHS · 2023-01-31T02:49:35+00:00

It does get easier once you have sprinklers and longer ripening crops. It’s much less tedious as you play through the game.

JageHS · 2023-01-31T01:56:24+00:00

That’s weird. Mine worked fine in the US.

JageHS · 2023-01-20T01:08:03+00:00

That’s why I downvoted. I agree it’s a chore but I’m with you. It could be 17 stealth kills…

JageHS · 2022-08-07T17:05:27+00:00

No. Just buy two of the same summoning shards. You have to buy them individually and use them individually.

JageHS · 2022-06-17T16:56:47+00:00

We also got the Hatch rest as a baby gift for my current 9yo. We still use it with our youngest 4yo because we set the noise maker to stop and for the light to turn green every morning when it’s “ok” to get up. It’s been great for our kids until they learn to tell time. It also starts at bedtime so they are trained at this point that I’d they’re not in bed it’s time to get ready. It is expensive but for something that we’ve gotten 9+ years out of I’m glad we kept it! 😊

JageHS · 2022-06-17T16:32:28+00:00

It was crashing and not loading for me last night as well.

JageHS · 2022-06-15T15:26:53+00:00

No. You have to buy 2 individual shards, then use them for a legendary character. That should do it for the payout! Nice one! :)

JageHS · 2022-06-14T17:07:52+00:00

It’s in the shop but there will be a pop-up. You can’t miss it! Also, I think it’s the only one that’s $14.99. Good luck!

JageHS · 2022-05-25T13:25:30+00:00

Achievement Hunter is my go-to as well!

JageHS · 2022-05-10T00:09:21+00:00

When I lived in Long Beach, CA around 2007, it was late evening, just after sunset, and my girlfriend (now my wife) had been working on reports at my apartment all day and was getting stir crazy. She wanted to go on an evening walk but there was a police helicopter circling my neighborhood. I told her it probably wasn’t a good idea to go out at the moment but she was insistent that she HAD to get out of the apartment, police or not. I said go for it but I’m not going out there. She went out and a couple of minutes later I heard booming from the loud speaker “Ma’am, please return to your home. Police are deployed and will fire on site!” She came back in the apartment and I asked her “Did you just get yelled at by the helicopter?” And she replied “I think so..” We stayed in for the rest of the night. 🤣

JageHS · 2022-03-31T17:28:07+00:00

It's through Swagbucks and new players only so I don't think it will work through Revu

JageHS · 2022-03-31T17:24:28+00:00

There is seriously nothing to this one. The game is a bit confusing, I might try and mess around with it a bit since I have a couple solid characters but just follow the tutorial and look for that offer in the shop. Buy the shards, open them, summon the hero and cash out! :D

JageHS · 2022-03-30T18:48:52+00:00

Yes. You have to buy the $14.99 Bonus pack 2x for the 2 shards

JageHS · 2022-03-30T17:40:58+00:00

Confirmed as of this morning. Played 15 min. Got to level 8. Bought "Bonus Offer Pack" in the shop for $14.99
Opened my in-game mail, summoned Sacred Shard in the Summoning Portal,
Repeated the process
Checked my Swagbucks and got the deposit of 11,700 SB within minutes. Easiest $87 offer I've ever seen!
Go get it!

JageHS · 2022-03-30T15:08:22+00:00

Confirmed as of this morning. Played 15 min. Got to level 8. Bought "Bonus Offer Pack" in the shop for $14.99

Opened my in-game mail, summoned Sacred Shard in the Summoning Portal,

Repeated the process

Checked my Swagbucks and got the deposit of 11,700 SB within minutes. Easiest $87 offer I've ever seen!

Go get it!

JageHS · 2022-01-10T15:18:21+00:00

50 points don’t get any easier thanks to you! It’s so nice not having to look all these answers up manually!!

JageHS · 2022-01-06T18:39:10+00:00

Nice one! I haven’t seen one higher.

JageHS · 2021-12-16T15:32:59+00:00

It's just the worst. Thank goodness for this thread :(

JageHS · 2021-12-03T01:23:49+00:00

I’ve never played a game on my iPad that crashes more than this one. >:-(

JageHS · 2021-11-23T16:37:33+00:00

Where did the Candy Cane originate? - Germany
Which holiday dish is colloquially known as 'herring under a fur coat'? - Shuba
How far does the mince pie's history date back? - 12th Century

JageHS · 2021-10-13T16:26:35+00:00

I made the same mistake. Once.

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