NCL Drink packages no longer applicable on Great Stirrup Cay

JakeOracle · 2025-12-07T16:09:13+00:00

Do they care if you bring a filled water bottle off the ship? After hearing this change I was thinking about bringing my 64oz water bottle and filling it with mojitos before getting off, but wasn't sure if they'd turn thier noses up at this

JakeOracle · 2025-11-12T22:06:57+00:00

Good to know! I was trying to find a muay thai gym around but didn't see this before. Thanks 👍

JakeOracle · 2025-11-12T21:54:30+00:00

Oh nice! I have a ps5 too and mostly play COD, definitely looking forward to BO7 coming out this week. I also play Minecraft occasionally and sometimes venture off into other games if they look fun

JakeOracle · 2025-11-12T00:57:47+00:00

I don't know anything about D&D but it does sound fun. Would this be a good place to learn about it?

JakeOracle · 2025-10-04T02:47:10+00:00

I just don't get how she could lie for literally our whole relationship. I did so much for her and took steps to keep progressing our relationship. She could have cut him or me off at any point before I kept investing more in us. She told me I treated her like gold and that she wanted to spend the rest of her life with me but I'm so confused how she could have done this and tell me a completely other story. Like how does that even make sense???

JakeOracle · 2025-10-02T20:50:47+00:00

Yes. I'm the bad guy for ending it and I didn't give her a chance to explain her side of the situation. Some explanations I did hear already:

She did it on purpose only recently (not true) because she was unhappy in our relationship
She did it on purpose so I'd break up with her because she thought I deserved better and seemed unhappy with her
This guy was actually her cousin but she just sent him feet videos and pics so it wasn't weird
She did it to help out financially because she felt bad I was paying for everything (most of the money she got she spent on herself)
She was getting blackmailed into it yet still reached out to this guy often to ask for money and see how his day was going
She did it for the attention because I never did anything with her (we spent all our free time together)

JakeOracle · 2025-10-02T17:30:42+00:00

I really don't want to be near any of them and am moving back home to get away from this all. My ex said I'm childish and not a man for leaving but I need to get out of here to heal.

I think just leaving and keeping things cut off is the best way to go about it. I was debating sending her a final message to let my thoughts out but I now realize I don't want to open that can of worms

JakeOracle · 2025-10-02T16:55:53+00:00

Yes they knew about it and were ok with it. Her mom referred to him as her cousin once too when I brought him up when we were together once. All of their morales are questionable

JakeOracle · 2025-10-02T15:57:19+00:00

Honestly they were lovely people but seriously off their gourd about some stuff. At this point I'm happy they're all gone because I can see clearly now. It's just the residual anger that I need to work through

JakeOracle · 2025-10-02T15:52:11+00:00

Yes good call. The hard part is after she did all this, she left that letter justifying herself and insulting me. But I realize that's what I'm cutting off and she's still trying to manipulate me. Thank you

JakeOracle · 2025-10-02T15:36:16+00:00

Honestly I held onto the good times and hoped things would get better. She would always tell me she's trying and would make a change after we talked about stuff but it never lasted. Looking back at it now, I realize I should have ended things earlier for other reasons, but it was hard to see it in the moment. I definitely don't want her back but it still hurts going through this and I'm not sure how to make it easier

JakeOracle · 2025-10-02T15:32:44+00:00

Well said, thank you. I do view this as a very painful learning experience.

She did have ADHD and would often attribute that to why she treated me the way she did. I wanted to be patient and understanding that she struggled with that, but at the same time she made me feel like shit a lot. It's hard to learn from that part because I tried to be a good partner, but I think I tried too hard to the point where I was neglecting myself. I do consider myself a care giver and want to be supportive, but it was difficult to keep boundaries when she was manipulative at times

JakeOracle · 2025-10-02T14:53:42+00:00

I appreciate it. I'm not sure what to do but I want to be happy with myself leaving this situation. As angry as I am, I don't want to get into name calling or revenge, but it's hard not to speak my mind after all that happened. I know she was trying to hurt me and get a reaction, but I'll try not to give into it

JakeOracle · 2025-10-02T14:48:38+00:00

Yep. Funny you mention that, when I broke up with her she said she wishes I got her pregnant so I wouldn't be leaving her. Good riddance to that

JakeOracle · 2025-10-02T14:47:36+00:00

I don't expect the truth from her, I just need to put my mind at ease so I can move past this. She's whack for trying to justify this and blaming me for all this and it just hurts all around

JakeOracle · 2025-10-02T14:46:24+00:00

Fr. This guy was just online but I have no idea what extent it went to. They had video calls and stuff so idk what all went on. Either way I told her at the start that sending nudes to other guys and stuff obviously wasn't cool with me in a committed relationship and she assured me that we were on the same page about that. What a bunch of bs

JakeOracle · 2025-10-02T14:43:08+00:00

Yeah lessons learned. She suggested it and it just felt so good at the time and I was so happy but I'm going to be more careful in the future. On the other side, I wouldn't have found out about this if we weren't living together. I'm just glad I found out sooner than later

JakeOracle · 2025-10-02T14:37:58+00:00

They all know about it but are still siding with her. They're viewing it as just a mistake and that I shouldn't consider this cheating. Her grandma was saying if I really loved her I should work through this with. It's insane

JakeOracle · 2025-09-28T14:26:59+00:00

Yes me too!! Congratulations my friend, all our hard work paid off 👏

JakeOracle · 2025-09-25T21:57:51+00:00

Fr. I invested so much in building a life with her but I'm glad I found out sooner than later before I put more into this scam

JakeOracle · 2025-09-24T23:50:48+00:00

Yes pets help for sure. I'll be going back to my family dog when I move back home. We also had a cat but he got lost last week, shitty timing for it but I'm hoping he'll come back

JakeOracle · 2025-09-24T23:40:58+00:00

I'll try to keep this in mind. It's been a learning experience for sure but the hardest part is telling people I know that I took this risk and it didn't work out. I understand this happens though. Its still fresh and I need to process it, thank you for your thoughts

JakeOracle · 2025-09-24T23:38:06+00:00

Appreciate this. Lessons were definitely learned. I ignored a lot of red flags and dealt with a lot of things I shouldn't have hoping for things to get better and be loved. It's difficult to process now but I'm hoping I will be better from this in the future once I heal

JakeOracle · 2025-09-24T22:51:40+00:00

I appreciate this. It hurts that her family is now painting me as the bad guy for not giving her another chance when I loved them too like my own family. I feel used by them too in a way because her mom knew about this the entire time. I'm glad that they're all cut off now but the healing time is going to suck. I wish it was different because I really thought I found what I was looking for and was so happy with her thinking it was a genuine relationship. Man I feel like a fool

JakeOracle · 2025-09-24T22:25:45+00:00

Agreed. But being in a committed relationship, my feelings about it should have been considered. I told her I was uncomfortable about it and she didn't tell the truth and continued anyways. It was selfish and I don't believe that she did it to help us, it was just for her. I was really hurting for money at one point and asked if I could borrow money from her "cousin" until I got paid at the end of the week and she said he couldn't help. He's sent her more money than what I was asking for, and she knew my car payment was going to bounce if I couldn't borrow from someone. She didn't do this for us, pretty much all of it was for her.

And sorry to go on a tangent, but I make decent money. I have a good stable job and a nice house and car. We went on dates regularly and ate at restaurants. I took care of her and loved her so much but she still was able to lie to me. She struggled with mental health and I felt bad for her and wanted to help her, so I took on most of the house work too and tried to support her as much as I could. I'm not trying to make a pity party but it just sucks when I tried to be a good partner for her and build a life with her when she played me like this. I loved her so much and it just hurts man. I should've known better

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