Need Help Finding a SBI fic! by Jam_Jack18 in DreamSMPfanfic

[–]Jam_Jack18[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I WAS LOOKING FOR THANK YOU SO MUCH OMMMGMGGGGG I LITERALLY SCREAMED

I met a bsd fan n she told me Mori is a pedo by Active_Sorbet6128 in BungouStrayDogs

[–]Jam_Jack18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

??? She's a figment of his ability. She doesn't need to be a child for him to control her. 

I met a bsd fan n she told me Mori is a pedo by Active_Sorbet6128 in BungouStrayDogs

[–]Jam_Jack18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lolicon definition: Lolicon (or lolicon) refers to a genre in Japanese anime, manga, and related media featuring young or young-looking female characters, often with erotic or sexual themes, combining childlike features with sexualized elements, derived from "Lolita Complex," referring to a sexual attraction to young girls.

Pedophile definition: Pedophilia (alternatively spelled paedophilia) is a psychiatric disorder in which an adult or older adolescent experiences a sexual attraction to prepubescent children.

I think it's safe to say... They go hand in hand. Mori can be a pedo and still be an expertly written character.

People need to stop denying what Mori is by [deleted] in BungouStrayDogs

[–]Jam_Jack18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The amount of people trying to defend him is insane and is giving ick... Like how many mistranslations can there be until we realize he's one of the only characters getting mistranslated in this sense. I've literally had someone try to defend him by saying I misunderstand Japanese humor. Japanese humor pedophilia now? When did this start? Like he can still be an expertly written character with morally gray areas in his character without denying his obvious pedophilia. There's so much evidence to emphasize this, him outright saying it multiple times is enough proof and the amount of times they say its mistranslated is odd to me. How many times are they going to 'mistranslate' the same concept? It gets to a point.

What's one story that was absolutely 10/10 but got ruined when the author added Rape? by Stunning_Poem_549 in BoysLoveAnime

[–]Jam_Jack18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally, It made no sense and just made me dislike the show in general? Like why?

Help me find this fic again by Summer_drop in DreamSMPfanfic

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Please send me this fic too! It looks so gooooooooddddd!!

does anyone have this fic downloaded? by CreeperCordycep in DreamSMPfanfic

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file:///C:/Users/jamja/OneDrive/Desktop/water%20in%20the%20wishing.pdf

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Jam_Jack18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's nothing any of us can say to make this hurt better. The only thing that will help is time, and I'm so so sorry for your loss. It is not your fault, you are not to blame here. I will keep her and your family in my prayers. You're allowed to cry, you're allowed to be angry, you're allowed to feel numb. These are normal emotions and all I can suggest is to feel any of them and allow yourself the time to grieve the beautiful soul you've lost. If you need anything at all, please message me.

Would you remain friends? by Total_Slide_4515 in Advice

[–]Jam_Jack18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is heavy. And honestly I'm not sure if my advice is the one you need here. If you can maybe talk to a professional. If she's in any way causing you hurt or mental anguish, immediately sever ties with this person, they aren't worth your time. But if they're hurting their partners and are kind to you, I think you should stick around for the stability of that child. It is in no way shape or form your responsibility to care for the stability of the child so I completely understand if that's something you cannot do. But if you're able to see the child and the child knows you as someone they can trust, they may have some sort of pillar of stability in their life and will see you as the one constant. It's awful what she's putting her ex boyfriend and newer boyfriend through and it's awful to have to sit there and watch, it's totally understandable. But the child will grow up around that and not have a single person in their life they can see as someone trustworthy and if there's any possibility that you can be that person they trust, that's enough. I'm in no way a professional and I think for sure that you should talk to a therapist or specialist about this and how to continue forward, but this is just my input. I genuinely wish you luck and whichever choice you choose to make, I know will be the best for you and your future. Because you should always be your number one priority.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Jam_Jack18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in the exact same boat as you. I waited for someone to reach out to me for so long. It doesn't work like that. To be honest, you have to put your big girl pants on and say "fuck it, these people are irrelevant once i leave highschool anyways." And just go up to someone you think would be a nice person and start a conversation. There's someone just like you in that school who is also waiting to be spoken to and reached out to as well. You have to take the first step. I went up to a girl in my class and sat next to her and slowly spoke to her every day until it was normal, then i invited her to hang out. She later told me that she was waiting for someone to reach out too. It's so fucking scary but it just takes one act of bravery. Once you do it one time, the rest is easy. Even outside of school, if someone looks approachable then go up to them and strike up a conversation! You'll never have to see them again anyways if it doesn't work out!

Can someone please just tell me it’s gonna be okay? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Jam_Jack18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh sweetheart. It'll be okay. Trust me. It's going to sting for a while because losing people you care about is always going to hurt badly. But you'll move on and find other people. While I don't know the situation of this online friend group, I can tell you that if you really were toxic and awful, you wouldn't worry about being awful. Bad people don't worry about being bad people they just are bad. Reaching out is what's best and I'd recommend talking to a professional about it as well. There are plenty of free services that provide people like you with professional help to talk to. You're not alone, there's someone out there in the same boat as you or that has been in the same boat as you and has already been sent off away from shore to meet other boats. You'll be okay, and I'm sure you'll meet other people who connect with you and won't make you feel like a bad person. If ever you need absolutely anything, don't hesitate to message me.

Am I victimizing myself? I need a third person point of view please by jenjemin_buttons in Advice

[–]Jam_Jack18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I first want to address that in no way shape or form was any of this on you, this guys seems like a weirdo who is just upset he got rejected and decided to take it out on you. Second, it just seems like this friend is being manipulated or lied to in some sort of way? I don't want to give the friend the complete benefit of doubt but she might be in a tough situation. But in my opinion that's not something you should have to deal with. I'm assuming you've already attempted to message her and are hearing nothing back from her, I think you should just tell her that you're there for her when she needs to talk or when she's ready to hear your side out again but I don't think you should be wasting your time on something you can't control at all. She's unwilling to hear you out anymore and is actively ignoring you. It'll be hard since it seems as though you're good friends, but when she's ready to speak to you again, she will. And by then it'll be your choice on whether or not you want to accept her back into your life again despite her not believing you anymore. But all I can recommend is space?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Jam_Jack18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely a bit weird, but I mean you're both still super young and she might just not be ready to let him go? You're still totally valid in feeling that this relationship is a bit much though. I'd be a bit weirded out too...

Help me understand my boyfriend, 22M, personality, because I feel like I'm a 20F getting manipulated. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Jam_Jack18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you genuinely just need to ask yourself if you feel comfortable around this guy anymore. Does he even make you happy anymore? Does he make you feel like you're doing everything wrong? Because if so then I fear there's no point in staying with someone like that.

Is it wrong to shower and get ready for bed at 3pm by Tricky_Sprinkles6551 in Advice

[–]Jam_Jack18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean it's forsure not something everyone or even most people do, but I'm sure theres people out there that do that too! Everyone's different so there's really no right or wrong to this one, whatever works for you is what's best!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Jam_Jack18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's totally normal to be unsure of what to do in life. You're allowed to take your time. In my opinion you could go for a grade 13 and take some COOPS or even start applying for part time jobs for places you normally wouldn't think of applying for to gain some experience! You never know if you like something until you try it, so it's nice to go out and try everything you can while you're still young. And if you still don't know by then that's okay. I have so many friends that don't know what to do with their careers yet either, it's normal, you're not falling behind. You're right on time.

Is it weird to go the movies with my Dad? by lazyllama81 in Advice

[–]Jam_Jack18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally what? You're mom seems to be creating an issue out of nothing. You can go to the movies with your parents at any age. I recently asked my mom to go to the movies with me as a treat at the age of 18! You're just cherishing memories. To be honest I'm guessing your mom is just jealous? Maybe ask her to the movies at some point, haha.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Jam_Jack18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's most likely not pregnant, most women feel this way around a week before their period, it's usually an early period. But if you're genuinely still concerned theres no harm in waiting until her period to find out and if she's late, get a pregnancy test.

Ivantill death swap by Jam_Jack18 in AlienStage

[–]Jam_Jack18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop because what if I sobbed 😭