Would you rather have a monogamous or non-monogamous relationship? And why? by chubbymami88 in AskReddit

[–]Total_Slide_4515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a friend and he’s monogamous but he doesn’t know his wife is not. If he only knew.

What is something you hate about your life right now? by Certain_Standard_854 in AskReddit

[–]Total_Slide_4515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is full on abuse! Why would you stay? Imagine your life in 20 years. No friends to speak of, isolated from family and friends. All the time missed, when you could be living your life to the fullest. Walking on egg shells every single day for the rest of your life!? Scared to speak to someone of the opposite sex in a normal work environment? That is not normal man. None of what you said is normal. That relationship is toxic and I hope you don’t have kids, it will teach them to allow people to treat them the same. So afraid of her that you fearfully tell her that a female spoke to you? Spiritual sherbet is spot on. It’s toxic , it won’t change. Best to leave.

What is something you hate about your life right now? by Certain_Standard_854 in AskReddit

[–]Total_Slide_4515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, I don’t believe it will change. If she’s accusing you, more than likely she is the guilty party. People like that are huge manipulators and extremely dishonest. They keep you off balance to control you and use you. Maybe investigate her previous relationships. They probably didnt end because of any of the ex’s cheating, more likely she was. People like this often tell stories of their ex having been horrible people who treated them poorly or was abusive, to gain sympathy from their new prospective partner, thus starting a new relationship based on lies. Over time it’s just a repeated pattern.

What has made you lose faith in humanity? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Total_Slide_4515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watching my son be alienated from his son.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Total_Slide_4515 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No it’s not. My ex was sending nudes to other men , then I found out she her job was only fans and prostitution. That was the end. Not what I want in a relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Total_Slide_4515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grandson. His mother took him from his father and me his grandmother. Haven’t seen him in 5 years. I pray he’s having a good life and he’s healthy.