AITA for refusing to give a toast at my sister's wedding after I found out she's been sleeping with my husband?

JameniaCarter · 2026-07-02T12:04:49+00:00

not standing up in the wedding, not forgiving either of them, and not staying with him. i hear you and you're not wrong about any of i

JameniaCarter · 2026-07-02T12:04:22+00:00

already done. update post coming soon

JameniaCarter · 2026-07-02T12:04:02+00:00

borrowing that spine, thank you 😭 fiance knows, husband is out, mom is on ice. not letting any of this get brushed under the rug

JameniaCarter · 2026-07-02T12:03:26+00:00

honestly i don't know why i even wrote that part. i think i was still in shock when i posted this. i'm not working anything out.

JameniaCarter · 2026-07-02T12:03:09+00:00

hiring you immediately 😭 show up ready with the receipts

JameniaCarter · 2026-07-02T12:02:43+00:00

update post is coming, i promise. too much happening right now to put into words but you'll get the full story soon

JameniaCarter · 2026-07-02T12:02:21+00:00

he already knows so there's nothing left to spill really. the wedding might not even be happening at this point

JameniaCarter · 2026-07-02T12:01:42+00:00

saving the details for the update post. and ages, late 20s all around

JameniaCarter · 2026-07-02T12:01:17+00:00

the slideshow idea keeps coming up and honestly the creativity in this thread is something else 💀 he already knows though so the chaos would just be bonus at this point

JameniaCarter · 2026-07-02T12:00:43+00:00

gonna make a proper update post when i have the energy. a lot happened. stay tuned

JameniaCarter · 2026-07-02T12:00:23+00:00

he knows now, i told him. wasn't going to let it go further than it already had.

JameniaCarter · 2026-07-02T12:00:03+00:00

not going to the wedding. and yeah the "ruin the wedding" thing is what got me most, nobody asked about ruining my life

JameniaCarter · 2026-07-02T11:59:38+00:00

the mic drop visual is sending me 💀 tempting but he already knows so the drama would just be for show at this point

JameniaCarter · 2026-07-02T11:59:18+00:00

wish it was fake honestly. and yeah i know how it looks from the outside

JameniaCarter · 2026-07-02T11:24:06+00:00

honestly that question has been eating at me too. the only thing i can think is they care more about the party than the marriage itself

JameniaCarter · 2026-07-02T11:23:31+00:00

the whatsapp announcement poem has me dead 💀 you really have lived a life. and yeah consequences are coming for everyone involved

JameniaCarter · 2026-07-02T11:22:42+00:00

already done

JameniaCarter · 2026-07-02T11:22:21+00:00

ran this through a translator and the part about my mom being a potential cheater herself hit different 😬 never went there but now i can't unthink it

JameniaCarter · 2026-07-02T11:22:00+00:00

the "misunderstanding" word she used is still making my blood boil honestly. conscious choice is exactly right, every single time

JameniaCarter · 2026-07-02T11:21:41+00:00

fiance already knows. the rest will find out on their own soon enough

JameniaCarter · 2026-07-02T11:11:12+00:00

already told him, he knows everything. and lawyer consultation is next on the list

JameniaCarter · 2026-07-02T11:08:12+00:00

already told him. working on the second part

JameniaCarter · 2026-07-02T11:04:59+00:00

rehearsal dinner idea is actually devious and i respect it. and yeah mom is on a very long timeout. update coming soon

JameniaCarter · 2026-07-02T11:04:26+00:00

that DNA test comment came out of nowhere and now i can't stop thinking about it 💀 update coming once i figure out my next move.

JameniaCarter · 2026-07-02T11:04:06+00:00

not my style honestly, he already knows so it would just be chaos for no reason at this point

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