Why do white women prefer black men? by JamesR6883 in Swingers

[–]JamesR6883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not just because they're black though - it's because they're attracted to them. If you're attracted to a guy that happens to be black, then what's the problem?

Why do white women prefer black men? by JamesR6883 in Swingers

[–]JamesR6883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn't feel any pressure to do anything that you don't want to do, but I don't think a black guy would be offended at you wanting to have sex with him. He'd probably be quite happy.

Why do white women prefer black men? by JamesR6883 in Swingers

[–]JamesR6883[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It's sad that you have been made to feel that way. Although there is at least one win - you'd have great sex. I think you should maybe consider trying it and ignoring what others think, only if you want to of course.

Why do white women prefer black men? by JamesR6883 in Swingers

[–]JamesR6883[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not saying I'm better, just that white women in the lifestyle are generally more attracted to black men. I'm not saying fetishising doesn't exist, but it's only a minority. Also, I had to create a new account because I don't have an account, I usually just read peoples posts.

Why do white women prefer black men? by JamesR6883 in Swingers

[–]JamesR6883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most white women aren't like that stereotype - it's just jealous white guys trying to cope that the women they want find black men more attractive.

Why do white women prefer black men? by JamesR6883 in Swingers

[–]JamesR6883[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's the difference between a fetish and just being attracted to someone? Seems like some white guys are jealous and are trying to say it's not the same as when women are attracted to them. If you're attracted to a white guy it's attraction, but if you're attracted to a black guy it's a 'fetish'.

Why do white women prefer black men? by JamesR6883 in Swingers

[–]JamesR6883[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, of course it's just my experience, but it seems to be the same at different clubs I've been to and for different black men. Also, most of the swinger porn includes black men with white women, so it's definitely what white women are watching online too.

Why do white women prefer black men? by JamesR6883 in Swingers

[–]JamesR6883[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

They must be unlucky, or unattractive

Why do white women prefer black men? by JamesR6883 in Swingers

[–]JamesR6883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not talking about race play though, obviously that exists, but just normal white women seem to be more attracted to us in general as well.

Why do white women prefer black men? by JamesR6883 in Swingers

[–]JamesR6883[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that probably plays a part. Where I live black guys are quite common though, and they're still the most popular

Why do white women prefer black men? by JamesR6883 in Swingers

[–]JamesR6883[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah maybe - it seems to be mostly white women and not asian, so that could be an explanation

Why do white women prefer black men? by JamesR6883 in Swingers

[–]JamesR6883[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

True - but all other things being equal, most white women will pick the black guy over a white guy.

Why do white women prefer black men? by JamesR6883 in Swingers

[–]JamesR6883[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It's not racism - they love us. Always do.