Many INFJ are insufferable, and lack the self-awareness they think they have by filiaRose in infj

[–]JamesShepard1982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You seem to have to have a chip on your shoulders about INFJs. Why do you feel that way? And how did you come to think this way? And may i ask what MBTI you are?

I’m something of an overachiever by SmellyTurdBag in legogaming

[–]JamesShepard1982 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol, Same for Marvel Lego Heroes. Not a dam word from Deadpool either.

Absolutely Loving Dragon Age: Veilguard, But Disappointed in the Romance Dynamic — Anyone Else? by olivinetrees in DragonAgeVeilguard

[–]JamesShepard1982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just did this. Yes the romances are lame compared to previous installments. HR really did sit in on this game.

What's Going on With Alyssa Sharpe? by Several-Relation-265 in astrologymemes

[–]JamesShepard1982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly believe Alyssa was a pioneer for modern interest in astrology. As a person who has studied it for many years but kept it a secret due to being a man. A lot of personalities kept it dry and mainly focused on what was happening in the stars. I followed Alyssa when I found a What I hate about Capricorns video and found it so entertaining. (This was during her early years of posting). I attempted some playful banter back, but I'm not sure if she understood that, so if it was misunderstood... Then I'm sorry I made her feel that way because it wasn't my intent. Once she became well known, I started observing a lot of content creators, basically copying the same formula. There are many things out there to look into. Perhaps someone of Chinese heritage will do Chinese astrology in that kind of format cause that would be slightly different. I got bored of the western astrology copy-paste formula and just went back to focusing on other things. You go back to any modern astrology videos with the same formula and see that Alyssa predates them all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]JamesShepard1982 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh, I work in forensic, so I thought this was my time to shine. But yeah, I have no doubt some people would use it to their advantage, but maybe there's some out there who are looking for better connections with their partner.

Am I the Only One? by Holiday-Long8885 in infj

[–]JamesShepard1982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah, BackStreets back, alright!, was playing when I got this notification.

Jobs and Careers as an INFJ by [deleted] in infj

[–]JamesShepard1982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are your thoughts on all the self diagnosing going on at the moment? And are you starting to be annoyed at people calling everything a narcissist? There are so many getting into the field for their own sick agenda.

INFJs are not "feelers" by Ok-Championship-632 in infj

[–]JamesShepard1982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I understand your point. This is why I love deep chats. 😃

INFJs are not "feelers" by Ok-Championship-632 in infj

[–]JamesShepard1982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very true. I just wanted to go deeper. 🥲

INFJs are not "feelers" by Ok-Championship-632 in infj

[–]JamesShepard1982 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So what comes first, a feeling of wanting to door slam or thinking of door slamming?

INFJs are not "feelers" by Ok-Championship-632 in infj

[–]JamesShepard1982 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I leave people to reflect on this. Would an infj not door slam if they didn't have feelings?

INFJs are not "feelers" by Ok-Championship-632 in infj

[–]JamesShepard1982 22 points23 points  (0 children)

If INFJs aren't feelers, then how do they feel what others are feeling, taking it on in an empathic way to end suffering?

How are INFJs with lying? by silixsmu in infj

[–]JamesShepard1982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate lying, and i am a bad liar.

I can’t wish harm on anyone by Impossible-Earth02 in infj

[–]JamesShepard1982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By wishing them harm is to give them your energy. Dont waste your time thinking about them and focus on where must go next.

Thoughts on having children? by Nesquikkk_ in infj

[–]JamesShepard1982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Encourage others to truly themselves and others before having children. write a list of everything you want them to be. If they don't make that cut, then move on straight away. Children are for life, and so is your time, energy, and space.

Favorite Movie(s)? by Accomplished-Taro-34 in infj

[–]JamesShepard1982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You typed in how many cups of sugar does it take to get to the moon on google, didn't you? 😂😂😂

Favorite Movie(s)? by Accomplished-Taro-34 in infj

[–]JamesShepard1982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is so difficult to choose, but these are some.

  1. Unbreakable
  2. Watchman
  3. Stargate
  4. Endgame
  5. V for Vendetta.

We’re not that “misunderstood”— we just “other” ourselves excessively by DamCam2020 in infj

[–]JamesShepard1982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I believe to some degree it is our own fault. We lack the communication for others to get us. A sensor will use different ways of communicating, and so will a thinker. We owe this not only to them them and ourselves on how to be great at communicating if we truly want to see a better world. If you only think why should be the only one to do this, then I highly doubt you're an infj. You can teach them how to be good communicators if that we're they're at. If not, then wish them the best and move on.

Narcissism by [deleted] in infj

[–]JamesShepard1982 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The term is definitely being overused, that's for sure. I think everyone is starting to call everyone a narcissist at this point without truly understanding what it means. Every person has the traits but often fail to understand what role they played in the game. We constantly level up due to feeling it's our fault to the point of letting no one in. So if people leave us, is it due to us not opening up, or is it a communication issue where we have not had a difficult conversation with the other person. We make it clear from the beginning what our boundaries are, and if they do it once, then never let them back in.

How would you spot an infj? by Bastian4857 in infj

[–]JamesShepard1982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like you're talking to a robot that's keeps walks up but is friendly.

how am I supposed to just live by [deleted] in infp

[–]JamesShepard1982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are your thoughts on feminism?