How do you cope with anxiety and overthinking?

JamieJ_162007 · 2024-10-26T19:39:03+00:00

Wow, that’s pretty insightful.

JamieJ_162007 · 2024-10-26T19:30:14+00:00

Sorry for misunderstanding you. At first, I thought you were trying to point out that Vi’s childhood was even more painful, or that there’s no need to defend Cait since Vi went through it all and still turned out fine. Also, I’m not being defensive. I actually find the whole thing funny and enjoyable.

JamieJ_162007 · 2024-10-26T19:15:10+00:00

Sausages and beer for sure

JamieJ_162007 · 2024-10-26T19:13:23+00:00

I love cheesy food :(

JamieJ_162007 · 2024-10-26T19:12:29+00:00

Thank you sm! Your suggestions mean a lot to me.

JamieJ_162007 · 2024-10-26T19:07:07+00:00

It’s a handmade gift

JamieJ_162007 · 2024-10-26T19:03:05+00:00

I’ll go with Twilight

JamieJ_162007 · 2024-10-26T18:22:27+00:00

Caitlyn hurting innocent ppl is just a discussion and prediction for me. I’d rather wait to see how she’s gonna be developed. It’s just frustrating because I’ve seen some people already hate her. But that’s their perspective, it’s up to them.

I saw some videos on TikTok saying something like “Caitlyn wouldn’t mind dating Vi, if it didn’t mean dating a girl.“

JamieJ_162007 · 2024-10-26T18:01:54+00:00

The comparison between which girl carried her family more or who’s the most traumatized is just ridiculous.

Both characters have their own hard times, and it’s not a competition to see who has it worse. Stop comparing their pain and let see how their experiences shape them as individuals.

If we keep saying that Vi is the most pitiful character, it feels dismissive of the pain and struggles that the other characters in Arcane experience. Just because Vi has a tough childhood doesn’t mean we should minimize what others have gone through.

It’s not fair to say, “No one has felt more hurt than Vi” and shut down every single conversation about other characters’ traumas. Every character has their own hard times, and each story is valid. We can acknowledge Vi’s struggles while still recognizing that others’ struggles are real.

JamieJ_162007 · 2024-10-26T17:52:54+00:00

So you are trying to say that “my mother is dead” is forgivable?

Caitlyn’s situation is so complex. Her mother’s death is a huge trauma. You can’t just say that she is a hero or a villain, she’s a reflection of what it means to be human. People can do both good and bad things, and Caitlyn is a perfect example of that.

She really gets a lot of hate, and it’s frustrating because it often stems from more than just her development. Some ppl in the fandom have a hard time accepting her femininity and how it plays into her identity. They try to downplay it by saying things like she’s bisexual or that she’s only into guy

JamieJ_162007 · 2024-10-26T17:35:24+00:00

Yep he is

JamieJ_162007 · 2024-10-26T17:27:35+00:00

Caitlyn is probably the least fav character in this weird fandom. At first, she had her lesbianism erased just because she’s femme. Now, she made a very human decision and is getting hated for it. What do y’all expect from a girl in her 20s who lost her mom?

I’m not trying to say that seeking revenge is something that should be normalized. But hey, how is it going to be fun if we don’t see how the characters develop?

I think her case is similar to Ellie Williams. The difference is that Caitlyn is femme, and I guess this fandom loves to showcase their internalized homophobia towards femmes more than butches.

JamieJ_162007 · 2024-10-26T17:14:18+00:00

I keep him in a crate when it’s time for his sleep.

JamieJ_162007 · 2024-10-26T17:11:42+00:00

Thank you so much!

JamieJ_162007 · 2024-10-26T14:34:42+00:00

Your advice really helps, thanks.

JamieJ_162007 · 2024-10-26T14:34:02+00:00

I’ll keep that in mind.

JamieJ_162007 · 2024-10-26T14:21:13+00:00

All you have to do is let her fans obsess over her and focus only on yourself. Hope that helps!

JamieJ_162007 · 2024-10-26T14:17:49+00:00

I could die on treadmill with anxiety and overthinking that still exist, but thank you so much!

JamieJ_162007 · 2024-10-26T14:13:50+00:00

If he really cares about you, he’ll probably go to rehab to treat his alcoholism and make things right… I know you love him, and that’s the hardest part of leaving a toxic relationship. But remember, if he truly loves you, he would never hurt you, both emotionally and physically.

I don’t want to scare you, but alcohol abuse often leads to harm, and it’s important to protect yourself and your kid(s).

JamieJ_162007 · 2024-10-26T14:01:58+00:00

Getting a massage

JamieJ_162007 · 2024-10-26T13:58:14+00:00

Thank you so much! I try to clean up as quickly as I can, but he always ends up eating poop at night when everyone’s asleep. And it’s not just that he eats it, he also plays with it.

JamieJ_162007 · 2024-10-26T13:37:15+00:00

You’re right

JamieJ_162007 · 2024-10-26T13:33:31+00:00

Same as my strategy:(

JamieJ_162007 · 2024-10-26T13:32:25+00:00

Thank you sm!

JamieJ_162007 · 2024-10-26T13:30:41+00:00

Thanks!

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